ALEX MYLES: “Navigating the Pleasure and Pain of Twin Flame Connections”

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“Ultimately the twin flame connection is here to teach us about unconditional love and acceptance by showing us whatever we have the most difficulty in loving and accepting within others and ourselves.  It is easy to love the qualities that reside in the light, our greatest challenge is also being able to love and accept those that reside in the darkness.”

~Alex Myles

 

 

A Twin Flame connection is often defined by one thing: an instantaneous, intense and magnetic soul resonation.

However for many, despite the heightened emotions and strong longing to connect with a twin flame, the opposite usually happens, and instead of coming together they seem to move further apart.

When we live open-hearted and are highly sensitive, we recognize our twin flame immediately, as they seem familiar and their energy feels like what many describe as home.  However, the ultimate twist in this is that the other person often won’t recognize us, or if they do, they are stuck in denial.  It can sometimes feel like the closer we move toward our twin flame, the farther they move away.

The reason behind this is not a comfortable pill to swallow, but it is important to know so we can awaken and heal from the aching desire to unite with the person whom our heart craves.

Twin flames are not the same as us — they are our polar opposites.  This ignites immense fear, as we are innately terrified of what we don’t fully understand, so we subconsciously attempt to reject it.

Where one person is open and inviting, the other may be closed and unwelcoming of the energetic bond.  Our entire universe is made up of yin and yang opposing energy and we are often pulled toward the opposing side in order to achieve harmony and balance.

The tricky part with this is that our egos play a huge role in resisting these twin flame/yin yang dynamics as we have become conditioned to behave in ways that are limiting, demanding, judgmental, controlling or fearful.  Therefore, even though the one who is closed off at the heart center will still feel an undeniable attraction, that attraction may feel chaotic and full of friction as it evokes an array of emotions they are currently unable to manage and process.

We simply will not get close to a twin flame until the barriers within ourselves that were erected at a point when we felt a need to self-protect are finally broken down.

Despite what we may have previously come to believe, when we initially connect with our twin flame we are usually entirely unprepared for the emotional, mental and spiritual aspects of this meeting.

This is because our twin flame projects back at us all the things that we either do not like, do not understand or that we deny, reject, oppress and refuse to accept in our own lives.

Although we often turn a blind eye to the parts we dislike in our twin flame, our subconscious mind is aware and will work tirelessly to attempt to guard our heart by triggering us to behave in ways that cause separation and keep our twin flame out of reach.

The denial of the other person is ultimately a denial of ourselves, because although we may have tried to hide aspects of our personality out of fear that they are hideous and unacceptable, they still exist.

We are often left in total dismay when this happens as in our mind we may have hoped and expected our twin flame would be an identical match, reflecting the same qualities that we have and therefore making us feel validated, worthy and acceptable.  If we believe we have inner strength, courage, and confidence, and we feel secure and centered, we hope that our twin flame also reflects these same things back — only then do we feel that we’ve met our match.

Our primal instincts, on an evolutionary scale, encourage us to admire and gravitate toward certain traits and disregard others so that we receive the greatest chance of survival both for ourselves and our offspring.  While this was all well and good in the caveman days when we had to fight harsh extremes for daily survival, the things we desire, need and want in today’s world are very different from what we may have desired, needed and wanted thousands of years ago.

It is no wonder we struggle to co-exist harmoniously with a twin flame.  We desire and want certain things on one level, but on other levels we are drawn to the qualities our DNA is convincing us that we need in a partner.  When it comes to matters of the heart and soul, these expectations can cause us to fail miserably.

Our needs and wants filter down to the same thing — security.  Not just on a domestic level, but security within ourselves.

The one who is open-hearted will be desperate to connect on a heart level and pour all their affection and admiration over the person their heart adores.  The opposite partner, the closed-hearted one, will accept the outpouring of affection, but it will not hit them in the heart, it instead serves only their egotistical mind.  It is no wonder that the longer these two interact, the further away from one another they seem to get.

The ego stands between them and redirects these messages wherever it feels they are best placed in order to “survive.”  Therefore, although these two flames are on opposing ends of the scale and feel drawn to explore the connection further, there are subconscious underlying forces pulling them apart.

The more attention and admiration the closed-hearted person receives, the more they feel as though they are above the open-hearted one.  The ego convinces them they can forget this connection and instead meet a match who is equal to them on all levels, failing to see that the yin and yang — opposing but balancing qualities — are the exact ones needed for complimentary soul resonation.

The tricky part arrives when the illusions fade, the rose tints are off and the ego steps back. Then we see the situation with clarity:

A twin flame is simply mirroring all the tendencies that we perceive as weak and undesirable.

If we hold disdain for emotionally unavailable types, it is a sure bet that our twin flame will be emotionally unavailable to us.  If we despise people who are trapped in their ego, that is the exact manifestation that our twin flame will take on.  If we hate people who are arrogant and self-absorbed, yes, our twin flame will project those traits outwardly too.

We may not consciously accept that these characteristics are inherent in our twin flame, as we can become captivated with the image our imagination helped create, but when that illusion is torn down and reality hits, we start to see that our twin flame is not as “perfect” as we may have first believed.

Spiritually we are being asked if we are still willing to keep our heart, that is tempted to close, wide open knowing that the person we placed on a pedestal is simply a human — just like us — with a myriad of perceived and real flaws and faults.

Instead of suppressing our darkness and attempting to only rest in the light, it is essential that we embrace, integrate and balance all of our shades if we want to gain inner peace and receive the chance of connecting with this person.

We often feel compelled to only express the light parts of ourselves due to fear that we will be rejected if anyone sees the broken fragments beneath the surface.  However, in our terrified state we are also rejecting ourselves as well as those around us whose dark sides we witness.

The key to a twin flame soul connection is in accepting one another in our entirety and continuing to love regardless of all the imperfections that this person presents to us.

When we are able to love not just others but also ourselves, without conditions, expectations or attachments, we have then reached a heightened form of love.  The toughest and most challenging part is maintaining it.

There is a difference between a soul mate and a twin flame.  A soul mate is someone we share similarities with, learn from and communicate well with.  They are kindred spirits and we can usually co-exist harmoniously with them without being challenged too far outside our comfort zone.  These relationships feel natural and comforting and generally flow effortlessly.

A twin flame appears as our opposite incarnation and we learn continuously from the connection regardless of whether we are in close contact with them or not.  We usually struggle to co-exist with a twin flame as we are challenged beyond our comfort zone and these challenges trigger our deepest insecurities, beliefs, values, motivations, intentions and feelings.

We learn from a soulmate for our own higher good, but we learn from a twin flame for the higher good of the entire planet and collective evolution.

Ultimately the twin flame connection is here to teach us about unconditional love and acceptance by showing us whatever we have the most difficulty in loving and accepting within others and ourselves.  It is easy to love the qualities that reside in the light, our greatest challenge is also being able to love and accept those that reside in the darkness.

Both halves of the twin flame dynamic will struggle equally to accept the opposing traits of the other person.  As much as they feel a bond and are magnetized towards one another, there is also a strong undercurrent repelling and forcing them apart.

When we finally learn to release our past pain, our conditioned beliefs and the trauma that is causing obstacles, we can then begin to truly love and accept ourselves and one another exactly as we are.  The undercurrent pulling us away will weaken and we will stop subconsciously resisting the powerful and unique flow of unconditional, limitless love.

Until then, a twin flame connection may feel complicated, frustrating and will likely elude us.

 

~via ElephantJournal.com

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DIANE CANFIELD: “Sociopathic Behavior And The Cure”

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Since there is only LOVE — there is a separation with some that have not been loved and do not know what LOVE is.  This behavior when to the extreme can play out as what is termed sociopathic behavior.  What is really — lack of LOVE and separation from Source.

One of the attributes of a sociopath is to accuse others of what they themselves are doing.  This accomplishes two things for them, it takes the attention off of them and puts the victim in a defensive mode.

The victim then has to try to explain themselves when it is actually the sociopath that should be doing the explaining.  This is a common mechanism that is used by someone with no conscious and no connection to SOURCE.

They also feel they are above everyone else and untouchable.  They may also be charming and likable by many.  Yet few know the hidden secrets they carry and the way they manipulate others.

They do not operate on the same code of ethics that most of us do.  They operate on service to self, while making it look like they are service to others.

Empaths are especially vulnerable to this because we have a tendency to “care too much”.  We are the ULTIMATE nurturers and support for others.  This is the opposite of a sociopath that looks to use others for their own gain.

Energetically they feel chaotic and not peaceful.  They may seem to always be on edge waiting for someone to find them out.

We can see this in all walks of life, in business, family and all places where there are high profile people.

The answer to this is to LOVE ourselves enough to be able to spot this immediately when we see it.  We can not “care enough” to fix this person.  They have to at some point learn to love themselves enough to work on themselves and learn how to genuinely care for others without expecting anything in return.

The answer in the higher states is to have healing centers where they are shown what LOVE is and how to love others — just for the sake of LOVE

– Diane Canfield

 

 

~via DianeCanfield.com

CHRISTIAN COTRONEO: “Cat No One Would Touch Is So Grateful Someone Finally Hugged Him”

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Everything about Valentino suggested people not give him the one thing he needed more than anything: human contact.

The cat’s hardened fur was riddled with grime.  He suffered from sarcoptic mange, a condition that’s highly contagious to both cats and humans.  His eyes were so caked and swollen, they were sealed shut.

And Elaine Seamans didn’t care.

While passing by his cage at the Baldwin Park Animal Shelter last week, she heard his faint cry for help.

“He reached out with his little paw and made the tiniest meow,”  Seamans tells The Dodo. “It was like he was screaming without verbalizing it:  ‘Please help me.’”

“There are times when it’s not an option to keep walking,” she adds. “You just have to stop.  This was one of those times.”

And she opted not to wear gloves, but to press Valentino directly to her heart.

“When I picked him up, he put his little head on my shoulder,” Seamans says. “That was it. I had to get him out.”

Then Seamans, founder of the At-Choo Foundation and a regular visitor at the shelter, let Valentino make the call for help himself.

While still holding the cat, she dialed her friend, Toby Wisneski, founder of Leave No Paws Behind.

“When I was talking to Elaine on the phone and she let me hear his little meow, I said, ‘That’s it.’” she tells The Dodo. “I could hear him. That sealed the deal.”

Wisneski picked up Valentino over the weekend, taking him directly to a veterinary clinic where — although he couldn’t see the staff — Valentino could feel his world changing for the better.

“He couldn’t move and he couldn’t see. But God love him, he’s a fighter.” Wisneski says. “Everybody just adores him and they’re very protective of him. His prognosis is excellent and once he gets through this, he’s going to have a long life ahead of him.”

“His heart is good.” she adds.

But then again, that’s one thing that a veterinarian didn’t need to confirm.

Seamans knew that as soon as she took every risk in the world to hold a mange-ridden cat close to her own heart — and let him know he wasn’t alone.

“He’s so loving,” Wisneski says. “You can tell he is very grateful. He will purr for them and try to rub up against the veterinary staff. He knows he is safe.”

When Valentino finally opens his eyes, it will be to a brand-new life. One with a family.

Maybe that could be you.

 

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Get in touch with Leave No Paws behind here.

And if you would like to help support Valentino’s recovery, consider making a donation

You can also get updates on Valentino’s progress through the group’s Facebook page.

~via thedodo.com

ADEANA M. SLATER: “Return Of The Goddess — The Divine Feminine Rises And Anchors”

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The Divine feminine leading this Ascension has been pushed beyond their means to heal and rise above not only the emotional imbalances but the hierarchy of energy that has been displaced between the masculine and feminine over eons of time.  This imbalance has caused much strife in humanity as a whole because we lack balance, equality, and the shared unconditional love we once felt and recognized towards one another.

She has been pushed heavily to her breaking point, to release all of these old paradigms and conditions placed upon her.  To heal the rejection, the abandonment, and the feelings of not only a lack of support from her counterpart, but absolute dissatisfaction and disappointment as a result.  In a Patriarch dominating society, she has fought hard to become an equal voice with an equal chance to live in freedom without persecution. Without restrictions and boundaries placed upon her by a failing society.  She is fighting hard to prove that her intelligence is of equal to the masculine.  That her nurturing and quiet loving nature is needed and required to off-set the egocentric and seeming angry dominance of the masculine who have held power and sway for far too long.  Complete balance is required and necessary of both polarities in order to support the new Earth.

She has made significant progress to release not only the codependent relationship tendencies, desires, or expectations, but to continue to fight for her own self love, values, and independence.  In her fight to stand authentically strong and true, she may lose those dear to her heart along the way.  She knows despite the possibility of feeling like she is standing or fighting alone, she will never give up or relinquish the progress she has made.  She is fighting a battle for the entirety of the feminine representation of humanity.  If she is unable to hold steady without giving her power away, who will?

The Divine feminine press on.  They have no other choice with the progression, desire, and fortitude that is driven deep within the core of their soul.  They are here to change the paradigm and will stop at nothing short of that.  Their success and sheer determination is not only heart and soul driven, but divinely orchestrated and guided by Source Creator. ❤️

~Adeana M. Slater

 

 

About the author: Adeana M. Slater is an Empath and Lightworker who enjoys to write spiritual and inspirational articles in her free time. She is a single mother of four children and full time Registered Nurse.  ~via In5D.com

SOPHIE GREGOIRE: “Message for Twin Flames: You’ve Become Love — Its Vibration, Its Energy”

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The Twin Flame Community is learning a new way of loving and all is well.  This is a CONGRATULATIONS! message.

Until recently, you thought that either you love your Twin Soul, or you move on.  You thought that either you were going to build a life together soon, or it was never meant to be.

You believed that life is either Black or White. 

You thought, I commit to it everyday and I repeat my Twin Flame’s mantras — or it will never be.  You thought, it happens with Him / Her or love is gone.  You thought, even some days:  It’s Us — or I don’t want love.

You also thought… that love is simple and straightaway… you thought, He / She loves me and shows it — or they don’t love me, and this is it, this is over.

You thought: If they loved me they would do this or that.  If they truly felt what I feel, they would call now.  Yes, I know that sentences like those were in your mind.

In other words, your love was Conditional because it started with “If”.  You thought that love is demonstrated, or love isn’t.

Also, you thought that your happiness is found in the success of this relationship or isn’t found at all.  It was like — it works out or we all die.  You were writing a new Romeo and Juliet type of story.

There was drama and fear and pain in this love, because at that time you were giving all of your attention to it.  So all of your feelings were too much.  Life had lost its flare because life was only this, and this wasn’t working.

You were not strong enough within to see that you can have both — this and life, love without attachment, a divine heart but that doesn’t expect anything.

Your love was an exchange and as they were not replying — you wanted to take your love back, because to love when we love conditionally becomes too painful… if the beloved doesn’t seem to pay us back.

Also, you were attached to it.  You were so attached.  You could have died if they had said the wrong thing.  I do remember the pain in your eyes, the agony that you felt because they weren’t what you wanted and needed them to be.

You’ve hang on and cling to it so much.  It became your life at some point — your breathe, your good morning, your good night, your smile.

Things have changed, shifted even.  Now you know that it’s not what it used to be.  Now you can love, but as you don’t need love, even this love — you aren’t attached to it.

You love, but you just love.  You’ve forgotten about neediness, attachment, the chasers, the runners, the labels, your need to be rescued, your hyperfocus, your “It’s him or no one else”.  Your love comes from a new and very high energetic point.

You’ve forgotten all the wrong reasons that made you love.  The need, the void, the hurt.

Now it’s different, you just love because you love them and that’s the way things are, that’s the way you are.

It’s funny because now, you see this as an adventure again.  Like you used to, centuries ago.  An adventure of love.  In the meantime it became your life, or your pain, or your goal, or your sparkle, or you drama.  You were hyperfocusing, it was life or death, passion or blood — it was always too much but in many different ways, depending on the day.

It’s weird because you still love but you care less and less.  The OUTCOME?  You don’t need to know anymore.  You only love now, you’re a vibration, an energy.

You’ve attained the purity of it.  Now, you just LOVE.

You almost think, that you’ll love even if nothing new happens — even if life between you and them never unfolds in the physical.

You almost think, that Happiness can be found in other arms.  It’s funny how life has changed.  But this, is because you Love them as a pure feeling.

We’re proud because, you don’t love in order to receive anymore.

You just love, that’s your vibration. Y ou love them, and in the meantime — life is.

Congratulations!!

 

~via TheTwinFlameJourney.com

SUNANDA SHARMA: “Twin Flame Telepathy & Third Dimension”

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One may question why would twin flames choose to live on the edge?  Well, it is more like they are divinely tested to that extent that they exude crystal light and pure unconditional love.  To really exude unconditional love, one needs to refine one self and let the diamond within unfold.  Doing so is quite a path!

With that being said, what is the level of telepathy one shares with their twin?  The head connection or telepathic connection is so strong that one twin can read the mind of the other even if they are based in two different continents across the globe.  They can almost hear each other out loud and sometimes even see each other across distance.  This is possible because both the twins are highly evolved human beings with strong psychic senses and sometimes very powerful psychic ability.  If for some reason they do not join together for the incarnation, they will be a walking, talking guide to the other through their journey in this lifetime.

Does the third dimension reality support such unconventional relationships and unions?  It’s very difficult for the people who are still restrained by the third dimensional facade to welcome or comprehend the twin flame reunion.  Twin flame unions are the union of energy, which is the merging of the shiv and shakti as they say in Hind.  Such mergers are not for the faint hearted, but for the non-conformists.  This is the real true merging of souls in divine timing and in accordance with an outstanding divine plan.  That is why the pretenders, conformists and the body lovers may not stand a chance here.  For here, physical appearance does not matter;  the energetic wavelength is what pulls the twins together — one just knows the readings and every beat of the other beyond the comprehension of all the physical senses!  Those who have walked this path would vouch by its feel.

Twin flame reunions have a divine purpose to live by.  Universe will heed their plea once both acknowledge and realize that they are incarnated here for fulfilling a very spiritual mission and agenda.  They are individually very powerful beings, once together the power is manifested.  Similar to two laser sharp rays merging and decrypting the profane from the planet, some metaphysicists have pronounced the twins as ascension masters.  Their reunion all over the world will replicate the source energy and ascend the planet to higher dimensions.  More reunions of these divine mates is now taking place on Earth as our planet is gradually lifting its vibrational frequency to fifth dimensional frequency.  Hail the twins, for they are the fore runners to the next dimension!

 

 

About the author: Sunanda Sharma is a professional tarot card reader, psychic, author and life coach. A published author, she has written two books titled, Inspiration from the Spirit Volume 1 and Inspiration from the Spirit Volume II, which are available on Amazon.com and flipkart.com ~via sunandatarot.com

ADEANA M. SLATER: “Importance Of Self Love”

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When we first arrive on Earth, we experience amnesia and lose the truth of our soul divinity.  This is for a reason since we are here to learn.  If we came in with already existing knowledge, the purpose of our current life in terms of growth and expansion would become a mute point.  The goal of each incarnation on Earth is the same.  For the soul to discover the truth in our existence that we are indeed sovereign beings, created in the likeness of Father Mother God.  We are Source creation, able to do and be anything of our heart’s deepest desires.  There are no true limitations as to what we are capable of doing, except for the societal programs that have plagued our true essence from the ability to discover our pure and authentic self.

Earth is especially difficult when we are faced with duality, the illusion of separation, and the hold that the dark entities have had, for as long as they have.  Humanity as a whole incarnated into already adverse circumstances that most souls were unable to overcome or heal from.  The majority of our childhood memories stem from abuse in some form, from the most dysfunctional and un-nurturing home environments.  These experiences serve to imprint our inner child with the feelings of being unloved, rejected, abandoned, or not being good enough.  These are the most common themes that pollute our soul energy and belief systems.  In a form of deterrence, we are also conditioned that self-love is egotistical, arrogant, or self-centered.  In addition, It has not been helpful that our World has revolved around patriarch dominance and conditional love, riddled with attachments and expectations.  You can see how all of the blocks are already stacked against us, when it comes to the mastery of self-love and discovery.

It is also a quite common theme in this particular day and age to be codependent on another.  We are unable to function without “something or someone.”  We are placing restrictions and outer conditions on love already.  When we don’t feel it for ourselves, it is becomes natural to place power in the hands of another.  Automatically the actions or reactions of another becomes “who or what” we are as individuals.  In this way, we leave the definition of who we are, into the hands of those, who most likely do not have our own interest at heart, but rather their own agenda and selfish intentions.  Without the true empowerment of self-love we are unable to clearly see the limitations placed on our growth.  Rather, we fall victim to those who wish to use manipulation, control, or seduction to contain you within their grasp of attachment.

It is of the most importance that we see and feel the necessity of self-love in order to propel us forward in this Ascension process. The reason why, is that since we are created in the likeness of God, it is through the love of self that we are able to reconnect to Source energy in order to find our way out of the darkness.  It is through the light of our own heart, that connects us to ALL THAT IS.  In this way, if we follow love in whatever form, we will always find our way out of the shadows and into the light of our utmost divinity.  How can we follow or recognize love if we do not feel it for ourself?  This my dear beloveds is what can stop us from truly moving forward.  Self-love is always discovered, treasured, and made manifest from within before it is ever made available in the outer realms of existence.  The truth of love is that we are only able to give and receive in the same magnitude that we feel for ourselves.  The more we are restricting with self love, is the less we are able to give and receive from others.  We are automatically not living to our fullest potential in this way.

It is through conscious awareness and acknowledgment which brings us to the divinity that we hold dear within our heart.  Only we hold the keys to this empowerment and ability.  Only we can truly desire and then manifest the life and love we deserve, of endless possibilities, in order to make a difference.  No outer circumstances, situations, relationships, or experiences will bring us love and joy, if we are unable to find this sacred truth within ourself first and foremost.

~Adeana M. Slater

 

 

About the author: Adeana M. Slater is an Empath and Lightworker who enjoys to write spiritual and inspirational articles in her free time. She is a single mother of four children and full time Registered Nurse. ~via In5D.com