CONSCIOUS REMINDER: “Same Sex Twin Flames Are More Common Than You Think”

According to a spirit, the belief that the twin flames have to be a male and a female in a sexual and romantic pairing can be a misinterpretation, or also a misunderstanding of terms of energy. Misunderstandings are usually based on the fact that female and male energies were automatically equated in order to mean female and male biology, or also woman and man.

Attempting to classify the unfathomable

Every person in the world is an energetic being beneath his or her body, name and family, and all of his or her experiences and earthly information, and their eternal soul selves are those that live on regardless of the circumstances. People’s souls cannot be defined easily or limited easily. When we want to talk about spirituality through categories and perspectives from the real world, things usually get skewed, or sometimes misunderstood and mistranslated. It will be almost the same as when we try to catch water in our palms — regardless of how close our hands are, the water will always slip through. So, energy isn’t something which can be consisted of categories, but it is something that flows and ever-changes.

What do the female and male mean?

When describing twin flames as females or males, it is not about spiritual terms or biological woman and man. It indicates the nature that these energies have, and also the archetypal female and male energies are just terms utilized to portray two different types of energies, embodying different traits. However, this doesn’t mean that the energies express themselves or belong in female or male bodies. In fact, human culture was the one that equated them with each other. Every one of us has combined energies, at different degrees. For example, a male person may possess predominately feminine energies, while a female person may possess predominately masculine energies — even without having an impact on their sexuality. Every one of us has female friends and members of our family that appear to be more or also less ‘feminine,’ and male friends and members of our family that appear to be more or even less masculine.

Regularly than most people can realize

Those people that believe in the rebirth of one soul in another body, or better known as reincarnation, know that they have been both men and women and also different ethnicities through existence. However, who they are on a spiritual level goes far beyond their physical body and gender. So does their connection with their twin flame. From personal, overwhelming experiences and communications established with spirits, people claim that the Same-Sex Twin Flames are definitely more frequent than we can realize. Usually, they can be homosexual, and sometimes heterosexual. All of them are on the planet in order to open some old paradigms when it comes to love and teaching the real value of unconditional love, for example. We all live in this society which has set ideas when it comes to the meaning of love and how it should look like, or where individuals are usually loved as a result of something…

 

~via ConsciousReminder.com

CONSCIOUS REMINDER: “Twin Flame Consciousness — It’s All About Rising In Love, Not Falling In Love”

The dimension in which true love exists is different from that of space and time. This is why it cannot be started or ended; it just can be felt by giving up all selfishness.

It is a divine creation of God that helps one get closer and closer to self realization and Godliness. When someone is in true love, he tends to fulfill the ultimate motive of their life.

In a romantic relationship, our instincts and hormones make it natural to provide our partner with love but as the time passes it becomes a function of how much we are loved in return.

Whereas, in the case of true love, we never cease to feel the charm of their presence and we are constantly overwhelmed by the nature of this blissful creation love. Hence loving and caring for them comes to you naturally and effortlessly.

Being in true love is like the perfect combination of companionship, romance and worshiping in the right proportion. It brings out the spiritual purpose of making a dimensional shift in the hearts of humanity, in humans but empowering them to embrace the physical imperfections.

The purity and blissfulness of the love towards your twin flame is ever increasing regardless of how the love is reciprocated, helping us believe in the beauty of reality, what we do have and not what we could.

Nonetheless, to carry and retain this divine emotion in one’s heart takes immense persistence and patience.

It depends on the efforts of the twin souls to make their true love a celebration and it happens when they completely give in to each other while exploring the million ways to offer comfort and care towards the twin flame. If either of the twin flames choose to give up, the connection to the God breaks and you rescind the spirituality in you.

In order to prevent both the souls from tearing apart and failing to thrive in life, they must continue the practice and empower each other to live the best possible time and it can only be possible with the right support and irrevocable intention of loving in the hearts.

 

 

~via ConsciousReminder.com

ALEX MYLES: “Navigating the Pleasure and Pain of Twin Flame Connections”

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“Ultimately the twin flame connection is here to teach us about unconditional love and acceptance by showing us whatever we have the most difficulty in loving and accepting within others and ourselves.  It is easy to love the qualities that reside in the light, our greatest challenge is also being able to love and accept those that reside in the darkness.”

~Alex Myles

 

 

A Twin Flame connection is often defined by one thing: an instantaneous, intense and magnetic soul resonation.

However for many, despite the heightened emotions and strong longing to connect with a twin flame, the opposite usually happens, and instead of coming together they seem to move further apart.

When we live open-hearted and are highly sensitive, we recognize our twin flame immediately, as they seem familiar and their energy feels like what many describe as home.  However, the ultimate twist in this is that the other person often won’t recognize us, or if they do, they are stuck in denial.  It can sometimes feel like the closer we move toward our twin flame, the farther they move away.

The reason behind this is not a comfortable pill to swallow, but it is important to know so we can awaken and heal from the aching desire to unite with the person whom our heart craves.

Twin flames are not the same as us — they are our polar opposites.  This ignites immense fear, as we are innately terrified of what we don’t fully understand, so we subconsciously attempt to reject it.

Where one person is open and inviting, the other may be closed and unwelcoming of the energetic bond.  Our entire universe is made up of yin and yang opposing energy and we are often pulled toward the opposing side in order to achieve harmony and balance.

The tricky part with this is that our egos play a huge role in resisting these twin flame/yin yang dynamics as we have become conditioned to behave in ways that are limiting, demanding, judgmental, controlling or fearful.  Therefore, even though the one who is closed off at the heart center will still feel an undeniable attraction, that attraction may feel chaotic and full of friction as it evokes an array of emotions they are currently unable to manage and process.

We simply will not get close to a twin flame until the barriers within ourselves that were erected at a point when we felt a need to self-protect are finally broken down.

Despite what we may have previously come to believe, when we initially connect with our twin flame we are usually entirely unprepared for the emotional, mental and spiritual aspects of this meeting.

This is because our twin flame projects back at us all the things that we either do not like, do not understand or that we deny, reject, oppress and refuse to accept in our own lives.

Although we often turn a blind eye to the parts we dislike in our twin flame, our subconscious mind is aware and will work tirelessly to attempt to guard our heart by triggering us to behave in ways that cause separation and keep our twin flame out of reach.

The denial of the other person is ultimately a denial of ourselves, because although we may have tried to hide aspects of our personality out of fear that they are hideous and unacceptable, they still exist.

We are often left in total dismay when this happens as in our mind we may have hoped and expected our twin flame would be an identical match, reflecting the same qualities that we have and therefore making us feel validated, worthy and acceptable.  If we believe we have inner strength, courage, and confidence, and we feel secure and centered, we hope that our twin flame also reflects these same things back — only then do we feel that we’ve met our match.

Our primal instincts, on an evolutionary scale, encourage us to admire and gravitate toward certain traits and disregard others so that we receive the greatest chance of survival both for ourselves and our offspring.  While this was all well and good in the caveman days when we had to fight harsh extremes for daily survival, the things we desire, need and want in today’s world are very different from what we may have desired, needed and wanted thousands of years ago.

It is no wonder we struggle to co-exist harmoniously with a twin flame.  We desire and want certain things on one level, but on other levels we are drawn to the qualities our DNA is convincing us that we need in a partner.  When it comes to matters of the heart and soul, these expectations can cause us to fail miserably.

Our needs and wants filter down to the same thing — security.  Not just on a domestic level, but security within ourselves.

The one who is open-hearted will be desperate to connect on a heart level and pour all their affection and admiration over the person their heart adores.  The opposite partner, the closed-hearted one, will accept the outpouring of affection, but it will not hit them in the heart, it instead serves only their egotistical mind.  It is no wonder that the longer these two interact, the further away from one another they seem to get.

The ego stands between them and redirects these messages wherever it feels they are best placed in order to “survive.”  Therefore, although these two flames are on opposing ends of the scale and feel drawn to explore the connection further, there are subconscious underlying forces pulling them apart.

The more attention and admiration the closed-hearted person receives, the more they feel as though they are above the open-hearted one.  The ego convinces them they can forget this connection and instead meet a match who is equal to them on all levels, failing to see that the yin and yang — opposing but balancing qualities — are the exact ones needed for complimentary soul resonation.

The tricky part arrives when the illusions fade, the rose tints are off and the ego steps back. Then we see the situation with clarity:

A twin flame is simply mirroring all the tendencies that we perceive as weak and undesirable.

If we hold disdain for emotionally unavailable types, it is a sure bet that our twin flame will be emotionally unavailable to us.  If we despise people who are trapped in their ego, that is the exact manifestation that our twin flame will take on.  If we hate people who are arrogant and self-absorbed, yes, our twin flame will project those traits outwardly too.

We may not consciously accept that these characteristics are inherent in our twin flame, as we can become captivated with the image our imagination helped create, but when that illusion is torn down and reality hits, we start to see that our twin flame is not as “perfect” as we may have first believed.

Spiritually we are being asked if we are still willing to keep our heart, that is tempted to close, wide open knowing that the person we placed on a pedestal is simply a human — just like us — with a myriad of perceived and real flaws and faults.

Instead of suppressing our darkness and attempting to only rest in the light, it is essential that we embrace, integrate and balance all of our shades if we want to gain inner peace and receive the chance of connecting with this person.

We often feel compelled to only express the light parts of ourselves due to fear that we will be rejected if anyone sees the broken fragments beneath the surface.  However, in our terrified state we are also rejecting ourselves as well as those around us whose dark sides we witness.

The key to a twin flame soul connection is in accepting one another in our entirety and continuing to love regardless of all the imperfections that this person presents to us.

When we are able to love not just others but also ourselves, without conditions, expectations or attachments, we have then reached a heightened form of love.  The toughest and most challenging part is maintaining it.

There is a difference between a soul mate and a twin flame.  A soul mate is someone we share similarities with, learn from and communicate well with.  They are kindred spirits and we can usually co-exist harmoniously with them without being challenged too far outside our comfort zone.  These relationships feel natural and comforting and generally flow effortlessly.

A twin flame appears as our opposite incarnation and we learn continuously from the connection regardless of whether we are in close contact with them or not.  We usually struggle to co-exist with a twin flame as we are challenged beyond our comfort zone and these challenges trigger our deepest insecurities, beliefs, values, motivations, intentions and feelings.

We learn from a soulmate for our own higher good, but we learn from a twin flame for the higher good of the entire planet and collective evolution.

Ultimately the twin flame connection is here to teach us about unconditional love and acceptance by showing us whatever we have the most difficulty in loving and accepting within others and ourselves.  It is easy to love the qualities that reside in the light, our greatest challenge is also being able to love and accept those that reside in the darkness.

Both halves of the twin flame dynamic will struggle equally to accept the opposing traits of the other person.  As much as they feel a bond and are magnetized towards one another, there is also a strong undercurrent repelling and forcing them apart.

When we finally learn to release our past pain, our conditioned beliefs and the trauma that is causing obstacles, we can then begin to truly love and accept ourselves and one another exactly as we are.  The undercurrent pulling us away will weaken and we will stop subconsciously resisting the powerful and unique flow of unconditional, limitless love.

Until then, a twin flame connection may feel complicated, frustrating and will likely elude us.

 

~via ElephantJournal.com

SOPHIE GREGOIRE: “Message for Twin Flames: You’ve Become Love — Its Vibration, Its Energy”

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The Twin Flame Community is learning a new way of loving and all is well.  This is a CONGRATULATIONS! message.

Until recently, you thought that either you love your Twin Soul, or you move on.  You thought that either you were going to build a life together soon, or it was never meant to be.

You believed that life is either Black or White. 

You thought, I commit to it everyday and I repeat my Twin Flame’s mantras — or it will never be.  You thought, it happens with Him / Her or love is gone.  You thought, even some days:  It’s Us — or I don’t want love.

You also thought… that love is simple and straightaway… you thought, He / She loves me and shows it — or they don’t love me, and this is it, this is over.

You thought: If they loved me they would do this or that.  If they truly felt what I feel, they would call now.  Yes, I know that sentences like those were in your mind.

In other words, your love was Conditional because it started with “If”.  You thought that love is demonstrated, or love isn’t.

Also, you thought that your happiness is found in the success of this relationship or isn’t found at all.  It was like — it works out or we all die.  You were writing a new Romeo and Juliet type of story.

There was drama and fear and pain in this love, because at that time you were giving all of your attention to it.  So all of your feelings were too much.  Life had lost its flare because life was only this, and this wasn’t working.

You were not strong enough within to see that you can have both — this and life, love without attachment, a divine heart but that doesn’t expect anything.

Your love was an exchange and as they were not replying — you wanted to take your love back, because to love when we love conditionally becomes too painful… if the beloved doesn’t seem to pay us back.

Also, you were attached to it.  You were so attached.  You could have died if they had said the wrong thing.  I do remember the pain in your eyes, the agony that you felt because they weren’t what you wanted and needed them to be.

You’ve hang on and cling to it so much.  It became your life at some point — your breathe, your good morning, your good night, your smile.

Things have changed, shifted even.  Now you know that it’s not what it used to be.  Now you can love, but as you don’t need love, even this love — you aren’t attached to it.

You love, but you just love.  You’ve forgotten about neediness, attachment, the chasers, the runners, the labels, your need to be rescued, your hyperfocus, your “It’s him or no one else”.  Your love comes from a new and very high energetic point.

You’ve forgotten all the wrong reasons that made you love.  The need, the void, the hurt.

Now it’s different, you just love because you love them and that’s the way things are, that’s the way you are.

It’s funny because now, you see this as an adventure again.  Like you used to, centuries ago.  An adventure of love.  In the meantime it became your life, or your pain, or your goal, or your sparkle, or you drama.  You were hyperfocusing, it was life or death, passion or blood — it was always too much but in many different ways, depending on the day.

It’s weird because you still love but you care less and less.  The OUTCOME?  You don’t need to know anymore.  You only love now, you’re a vibration, an energy.

You’ve attained the purity of it.  Now, you just LOVE.

You almost think, that you’ll love even if nothing new happens — even if life between you and them never unfolds in the physical.

You almost think, that Happiness can be found in other arms.  It’s funny how life has changed.  But this, is because you Love them as a pure feeling.

We’re proud because, you don’t love in order to receive anymore.

You just love, that’s your vibration. Y ou love them, and in the meantime — life is.

Congratulations!!

 

~via TheTwinFlameJourney.com

SPIRITUAL UNITE: “4 Signs You Have Met Your Twin Soul”

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What are the signs you have met your twin soul?  A twin soul connection is not like a soul mate; we can have many soul mates; a twin soul connection is unique and profound and there is only one twin soul.

It has been written that our soul is divided into two, so Source can experience duality and mortality on earth.  Since Source does not have an equal, dividing itself into two was necessary, eventually the two would meet and unite again.

Whether you experience a twin soul connection or not, it does not mean you are not complete; Soul and Source are always complete, it’s just our human self senses the incompleteness.  It’s crucial for one to be complete from within.

There are many signs you have met your twin soul.  I am going to list the most important ones, let’s dive into those shall we?

Signs You Have Met Your Twin Soul

Acceleration Of Personal Development

When twin souls do meet, the instant connection and spark are usually followed closely by a prompt development of personal evolution for both twin souls as a whole and individually.

Twin souls are mirrors, reflecting aspects of the self which are deep and significant when twin souls meet the energy between them will uncover gifts from within, a true twin soul connection has a purpose to teach or heal the world.

Twin Souls Are Eternal, You And I Are Old Friends

Whenever you meet your twin soul, the connection will be unlike anything you have experienced before, although the intensity of this connection is different there is still a familiarity about it, it feels beautiful in your soul to have this connection again.

You instantly feel oneness with this person and the love you feel is vast.  You feel you have known this soul for infinity.

Runner And Chaser Chaos

Twin soul connection is not for the fainthearted; many don’t want it and they run from it.  Could it be they are not ready?

This type of relationship can either be great with incredible love or it can crash and burn.  Things don’t go well when twin souls have yet to ascend into higher spiritual vibrations, they are not willing to let go of old beliefs and habits.

Sex Is On A Different Level

Because the soul level connection is intense, sexual experience is unlike anything you have experienced before.

Twin soul sexual experience may go beyond the physical, for example, astral sex.  The astral sex experienced is intense, like the feeling of one’s spirit is merging with the other, astral sex can take place with or without physical intercourse.

Although sexual intercourse is personal, a time for merging, however with twin soul there are other attributes where by looking into each other’s eyes can reveal other places in space and time, either past or future.

Your twin soul experience might be different and the relationship can have numerous outcomes depending on your life path.  These are the main traits of the astonishing twin soul connection.

 

 

~via SpiritualUnite.com