SOPHIE GREGOIRE: “Message for Twin Flames: You’ve Become Love — Its Vibration, Its Energy”

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The Twin Flame Community is learning a new way of loving and all is well.  This is a CONGRATULATIONS! message.

Until recently, you thought that either you love your Twin Soul, or you move on.  You thought that either you were going to build a life together soon, or it was never meant to be.

You believed that life is either Black or White. 

You thought, I commit to it everyday and I repeat my Twin Flame’s mantras — or it will never be.  You thought, it happens with Him / Her or love is gone.  You thought, even some days:  It’s Us — or I don’t want love.

You also thought… that love is simple and straightaway… you thought, He / She loves me and shows it — or they don’t love me, and this is it, this is over.

You thought: If they loved me they would do this or that.  If they truly felt what I feel, they would call now.  Yes, I know that sentences like those were in your mind.

In other words, your love was Conditional because it started with “If”.  You thought that love is demonstrated, or love isn’t.

Also, you thought that your happiness is found in the success of this relationship or isn’t found at all.  It was like — it works out or we all die.  You were writing a new Romeo and Juliet type of story.

There was drama and fear and pain in this love, because at that time you were giving all of your attention to it.  So all of your feelings were too much.  Life had lost its flare because life was only this, and this wasn’t working.

You were not strong enough within to see that you can have both — this and life, love without attachment, a divine heart but that doesn’t expect anything.

Your love was an exchange and as they were not replying — you wanted to take your love back, because to love when we love conditionally becomes too painful… if the beloved doesn’t seem to pay us back.

Also, you were attached to it.  You were so attached.  You could have died if they had said the wrong thing.  I do remember the pain in your eyes, the agony that you felt because they weren’t what you wanted and needed them to be.

You’ve hang on and cling to it so much.  It became your life at some point — your breathe, your good morning, your good night, your smile.

Things have changed, shifted even.  Now you know that it’s not what it used to be.  Now you can love, but as you don’t need love, even this love — you aren’t attached to it.

You love, but you just love.  You’ve forgotten about neediness, attachment, the chasers, the runners, the labels, your need to be rescued, your hyperfocus, your “It’s him or no one else”.  Your love comes from a new and very high energetic point.

You’ve forgotten all the wrong reasons that made you love.  The need, the void, the hurt.

Now it’s different, you just love because you love them and that’s the way things are, that’s the way you are.

It’s funny because now, you see this as an adventure again.  Like you used to, centuries ago.  An adventure of love.  In the meantime it became your life, or your pain, or your goal, or your sparkle, or you drama.  You were hyperfocusing, it was life or death, passion or blood — it was always too much but in many different ways, depending on the day.

It’s weird because you still love but you care less and less.  The OUTCOME?  You don’t need to know anymore.  You only love now, you’re a vibration, an energy.

You’ve attained the purity of it.  Now, you just LOVE.

You almost think, that you’ll love even if nothing new happens — even if life between you and them never unfolds in the physical.

You almost think, that Happiness can be found in other arms.  It’s funny how life has changed.  But this, is because you Love them as a pure feeling.

We’re proud because, you don’t love in order to receive anymore.

You just love, that’s your vibration. Y ou love them, and in the meantime — life is.

Congratulations!!

 

~via TheTwinFlameJourney.com

SPIRITUAL UNITE: “Twin Flames Separation — Why It Happens”

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Twin flames separation is something that can’t be avoided and is meant to happen in most of the twin flame relationships.  Apparently, most twin flames relationships are bound to come to a slight pause since it’s not quite obvious that at the point of meeting they both will be ready for each other.

The reunion is quite strong and would require the twins to be ready for each other i.e. be in a position to take care of each other’s souls and in addition, they should have individually learnt some important life lessons such as love, loss, handling of; jealousy and hate etc.

Therefore, when the relationship can’t seem to work, it happens with a reason.  It happens that there are key lessons still meant to be learnt and understood before embracing the love meant for the two.

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However much the two of you will have part ways, you are still connected and it’s just a learning moment for the two of you.  You are meant to learn important lessons such as detachment, forgiveness, surrender, grace, inner strength and trust.

Forgiveness will be the greatest lesson you will get to learn since the separation would have been caused by one of you either saying or doing something that hurt the other.

At a point like this, you will definitely miss your twin and you will get to wonder how to cope with such a loss.  It will be painful and it would ache your heart but remember it’s meant to happen.  It’s meant to teach you something and however much you wish they would be with you it’s just not the right moment.

Making matters worse, you will have to go through this stage alone as no one will get to understand what you actually feel.  You may try explaining yourself to those close to you and trust me the best response you can get is “just let go, maybe it was not meant to be.”  But no, don’t listen to them; whatever you had is not ordinary and very few people can come to really understand what you are going through.

Twin flame separation isn’t quite a pleasant ordeal and it will leave you with a string of questions in your head with no real answers and unfortunately it will be a confusing moment for you.

However, with the confusion and uncertainty, the two of you will still be connected in a way.  You will still think about each other nearly all of the time and still feel their internal energy.  You will get to feel it when they are emotional, upset or even when they will be thinking of you.

It’s quite sad to lose someone you had loved and still love with all your heart but remember one thing; it’s a stage you have to grow through and you are learning something out of it.  There may not be exact reasons as to why this is happening, how it’s going to happen or when it may stop and all you have to do is trust the process and endure the pain.

The whole encounter is meant to grow you and therefore this is a time for you to have your own healing, spiritual growth, recognize your lessons and just be the best version of yourself.  Once you are ready, the universe will reunite you once more and this time your love will be unbreakable and divine.

Are you going through the twin flames separation stage?

 

 

 

~via spirituaunite.com

SPIRITUAL UNITE: “Feeling Your Twin Flame Telepathically”

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Twin flames are considered to be the half souls of each other and each and every one is believed to have his/her twin flame destined for them in their last lifetime. How do you know you have met your twin flame?

Bond-Connection

Upon meeting, you will develop an unexplained bond connection between the two of you. You will feel as if you have met before physically as there is an atmosphere of familiarity. Intuitively, you will have a peculiar sensation that tells you that he/she is the one. Everything about you will point towards them being the one; your heart, guts, feelings and even the mind.

Feeling Your Twin Flame Telepathically

Telepathy is quite common among twin flames and you will come to realize that when you meet your twin, you will start developing some of their feelings, thoughts and even moods. It so happens that you can tell what is going on in the heart and mind of your other half and you are able to share whatever it is they are feeling. Distance is not actually a barrier and whatever is affecting them; emotionally, mentally, physically and spiritually will definitely affect you too.

Eye Contact

The human eyes are believed to be the mirrors to the soul and feeling your twin flame is possible through them. A deep gaze into the eyes of your twin flame would without doubt trigger some feelings within you. Furthermore it would be quite unusual as it would feel like you are staring at your own soul. A simple gaze into each other’s eyes is also believed to be able to heal any misunderstanding between the two of you.

Overwhelming Feeling of Love

Another way of feeling your twin flame is that there will be moments when there is intense genuine love between the two of you. You will feel the deep feeling of love strongly in at least one of the chakra focuses, particularly the heart chakra. The feeling will be so intense such that your souls seem as one and you will be feeling your twin flame’s soul inside yours. Such moments will be of certainty that you two are meant for each other and no matter what happens the two of you will always come back to be together.

Exaggerated Feelings

Since the two of you will be associating on a soul level, feelings between the two of you will be more amplified as considered to other relationships. Whether positive or negative, the two of you will experience excessive emotions i.e either incredibly good during the exciting moment or intensively low during the sad moments. The empathetic relationship between you two will mean you absorb the other person’s emotions and combine them with your own.

The 11:11 Synchronicity

There will be occurrence of repetitive numbers within your connections and the most common of them would be the number 11. The number 11:11 and other number synchronicity will be found within your day to day activities, anniversaries and individual birth dates, phone numbers and major life events.

Dreams

Both of you will sure have dreams about each other since you share a telepathic connection. In most cases, you will have these dreams about each other prior to meeting and they would also have certain themes based on your individual lives and also issues in the relationship that should be addressed. The telepathic connection can also be expressed in form of visions and day dreams.

Separation

Separation is quite common between twin flames as they prepare themselves for each other. Just as other relationships, you will face various misunderstanding however you are set to eventually come back together. The relationship may crumble in cases that one of you has unresolved emotional baggage and you two can only get back together once healing is ready to occur. The intense attraction and repelling between you two will definitely show you when to part ways and when to reunite.

Life Changing

The relationship should make you grow as an individual and in some sense teach you some aspects of life. You will realize that you develop different ideologies and approaches on life situations as a result of your twin’s influence on you. The relationship will also help your individual growth and enable you reach your highest potential in the world and in each other’s lives.

Empathy and Telepathy Connection over Distance

You will definitely come to realize that distance is not a barrier between the two of you and telepathy and empathy will be a common thing. At certain moments you will find that you pick on each other’s thoughts and may find yourselves finishing each others’ statements and texting, calling and emailing each other at almost the same time.

 

 

 

 

~via spiritualunite.com

ALETHEIA LUNA: “8 Twin Flame Stages — Are You Experiencing This?”

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The love experienced between two reunited twin flames is like a wild beast.

It can’t be captured. It can’t be contained. It can’t be tamed. Instead, it burns fiercely with an unquenchable form of intensity that is both exhilarating and formidable. The love experienced between twin flames is like Holy Fire: it burns you to ashes, but it also forges you into a new creature, like a Phoenix emerging out of the dust.

Although every twin flame relationship is unique and can’t be simplified, there is a general pattern that tends to emerges in these unions. As a person who went through a twin flame fusion, I know how overwhelming (and even terrifying) such an experience can be. I would have loved to read an article on common tell-tale twin flame signs when I was going through such a disorientating experience. But back then I knew nothing of twin flames or their significance. So here I would like to provide you with what I lacked: a general map that can help to guide you and pinpoint where you are right now.

8 Major Twin Flame Stages

Twin flames are said to be beings that aid our souls in finding completion. Ancient Greek philosopher Plato first created the idea of souls “split in two” that eternally yearn to find their “other halves.” These days we still carry around this idea of “find our other half,” but unfortunately we believe that it is absolutely imperative for us to find another person to be complete. Please keep in mind that while twin flames do help us to experience unconditional love and grow immensely as people, not all of us find our twin flames, and not all of us need twin flames to feel complete. Please read “7 Common Myths Embellishing Twin Flame Relationships” to read more about this.

Also, it helps to remember that the degree to which you can experience harmony in your twin flame relationship is dependent on your level of soulful maturity. For example, two old souls will have a much easier time at “holding it all together” than two young souls. You can read more about soulful maturity here and soul ages here.

So keeping this in mind, what are the eight major twin flame stages that you’ll likely experience in your relationship?

Stage One – Yearning for “The One”

In this preliminary stage you have spent your entire life pining for “The One” that doesn’t yet exist in your life. You have this strange sensation that someone who is perfectly molded to you is “out there” but you don’t quite know where or when they will appear in your life. Although you ache for your twin flame, you have a feeling they will appear to you at some point.

This stage is also sometimes spent “preparing” for the arrival of the twin flame on an unconscious level. In my instance, I had to learn how to love myself before I met mine. For others, this stage of preparation involves the development of self-awareness, discovery, and understanding.

Stage Two – Glimpsing “The One”

At some point, you will have a brief glimpse of your twin flame. Whether this is through a dream signal, or through a real life meeting, suddenly the Beloved can be sensed. The result is profound. Wonder, joy, anxiety and intoxication quickly ensue. For those cautious among us, a lingering sense of intense curiosity and desire to get to know the person better is the result. You don’t know what it is exactly, but this person is extremely special. Like me, you may even sense that this person will play an immensely important role in your life – even before you know them properly.

Stage Three – Falling in Love

When you fall for this person, you will fall very, very hard. You will fall harder than you have ever fallen for anyone – and the impact will knock the breath right out of you. In fact, as you get to know your twin flame better, you will fall more and more deeply in love with them. As a result, you’ll find it hard to stand with two feet on the ground. You might feel disorientated, lovesick and “unlike yourself.” You may even try to resist the attraction, but eventually you’ll accept the reality that you’re deeply and madly in love.

Stage Four – The Fairy-Tale Relationship

As both of you eventually make your feelings known and enter into a relationship, life will feel like a fairy-tale. Your relationship with them will be perfect in every possible way. It will seem as though your twin flame fulfills every single need you have and everything you ever possibly wanted. This taste of “paradise” is what the matured twin flame relationship looks like after the next few stages of turmoil.

Stage Five – Outer Turmoil and Inner Purging

In this stage there is trouble in paradise. As the ecstasy from the initial meeting period wares off, egos start to flare up. Suddenly differences in opinion, taste and personality arise, and old core wounds emerge out of the gloom. While our twin flames share and mirror our deepest needs, desires and dreams, they also tend to mirror our shadow selves. For example, if you are an emotionally repressed person, your twin flame will likely be emotionally explosive. If you tend to be arrogant, your twin flame will most likely be uncertain and quiet. In this way our twin flames challenge us, riling up our insecurities. This can be infuriating, devastating and very painful.

While all the arguing and fighting in this stage may seem disastrous, the truth is that it is necessary for our growth. Without being provoked, without seeing ourselves for who we “really” are, we live in illusion and fail to grow soulfully. But this is certainly hard to realize while you’re going through such turbulence in your relationship!

Stage Six – The Runner and Chaser

As tensions mount it is common for one partner (or sometimes both) to emotionally or physically withdraw and “run” away, and another to pursue in a game of cat and mouse. Sometimes this involves emotional shut down and silent treatments. Other times this involves physical separation and in extreme cases, the permanent termination of the relationship. In this stage, twin flames experience a trial by fire. While some relationships last and are strengthened, others crumble to pieces. As I mentioned at the start, this is all dependent on each partner’s soulful maturity. Sometimes one partner leaves for many years and then returns, only to repeat the cycle once again. The chaser, on the other hand, tends to be the more mentally and emotionally mature partner of the two, trying to sort everything out and make amends.

Stage Seven – Surrender and Dissolution

Once the shadow of your relationship has been revealed, you may experience a period of surrender. After so much anguish, distress and provocation, you both begin to open up about your wounds and insecurities. In this stage it is common to experience a lot of ego dissolution and soulful expansion. As the ego relaxes, powerful lessons are learned about the nature of oneself and the nature of the “other.” As you begin learning how to work through your differences, the maturity of your relationship deepens and thus strengthens.

It is common to go through stages six and seven many times throughout your relationship.

Stage Eight – Oneness

As the problems in your relationship become increasingly easy to deal with, you will enter a period of soul reunion. In stage eight it is common for you to both find a shared meaning, passion or cause that brings you a mutual sense of fulfillment. As the ego continues to relax, virtues such as forgiveness, understanding, empathy and patience are learned. The more you both work through each issue that comes your way vigilantly, the more you experience the sensation of “Oneness,” or ego death.

This is a true miracle.

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Have you found your twin flame? Which of these twin flame stages have you experienced in life and what insights can you share? I’d love to hear from you below.

~via LonerWolf.com

ALETHEIA LUNA: “20 Twin Flame Signs – Who is Your Mirror Soul?”

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The moment you meet your twin flame is the moment the earth beneath your feet begins to shift.

I like to think of the meeting of two mirror souls as an existential earthquake: all of a sudden you can sense that an immensely important person has entered your life. All of a sudden you get the overwhelming feeling that your life is going to change in a way you aren’t even aware of yet – and yet you intuitively know that the changes will be great, greater than what you’ve ever experienced, and breathtaking in their magnitude.

I know all of this because I am fortunate enough to have met my own twin flame a few years ago, so I have already gone through the fiery, intense and transformative process of meeting my soul’s mirror.

Although I feel immense gratitude for the gift of connecting with my twin flame, I am happy to say that this blessing is open to everyone; however such a gift is not always received openly or even recognized by us on a conscious level. Sometimes we’re at a point in our lives where we are simply not receptive to both ourselves and our twin flame’s presence due to stress, over-work, lifestyle habits and negative thought patterns that lead to low self-esteem.

For this reason I believe that it’s important to identify some of the major twin flame signs that you might experience, or have already experienced, in your lifetime. In the end, the appearance of our mirror soul is always a mystery and can rarely be predicted. So pay attention.

Who is Your Mirror Soul?

I like to refer to our twin flames as mirror souls because they essentially reflect the deepest needs, desires, dreams and shadow elements of our souls. We will explore this a bit more later on.

However before that, I just want to say that our twin flames are not always romantic, and they are not – as is so popularly suggested – necessarily heterosexual connections. In fact, our twin flames may be romantic partners of the same sex (or no sex), and they can often be platonic friends or even family members who we have known for a long time.

Regardless of this, twin flames are most commonly romantic in nature and tend to manifest themselves as people who we can passionately connect with on all levels.

Furthermore, it has also been popularly suggested that twin flames stay together for entire lifetimes, but I personally don’t believe that this is the case. Connecting deeply with another person doesn’t necessarily guarantee that you will stay with them forever – this is dependent on your own level of conscious development and that of your twin flames. Also, in the spiritual community most people suggest that we only have one twin flame in our lifetimes. Such a belief stems from the origins of the concept of “twin flames” in Plato’s The Symposium dialogue which indicated that humans originally had two faces, four arms and four legs. Because of this, humans were once so powerful that they threatened to overpower the gods, so the mythic god Zeus split them in half. However, it is said that once we discover our other “half” again we are filled with a profound sense of wholeness. Whether this explanation of twin flames is out-dated or not is up to you to decide.

Finally, it is common for us to get really excited about meeting our “twin flame.” However, sometimes this jubilation results in romanticized projection, meaning that we paint an idealized image onto another person that might not be returned or welcomed by them resulting in severe disillusionment. Also, when we suffer from low self-esteem and a lack of self-love, it is natural for us to try and find a kind of needy acceptance outside of ourselves (hence the projection), so be careful of infatuation and idolization. Your twin flame is certainly not perfect – just like you.

Top 20 Twin Flame Signs

Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along. – Rumi

We are not always receptive to the appearance of our twin flames in life. We might be heart-broken, wracked with grief, maritally over-burdened, or just plain tired and disillusioned when they suddenly appear out of the blue. In fact, we might have already met our twin flames or mirror souls, but we might have overlooked them, belittled them or taken them for granted in some way.

Whatever emotional or psychological stage you’re at in life, it is always beneficial to be conscious of the people you live with and meet. These following twin flame signs might help you to open new pathways and opportunities for union:

  1. You feel a strange, inexplicable sense of “recognition” when you meet the person. This might manifest itself as déjà vu, or an unshakable feeling that you’ve known this person before, or are somehow “meant to be together.”
  2. You have a feeling that they are going to play a very important role in your own development, without knowing when, why or how.
  3. You’ve established an immediate, intense connection with them that is invigorating and shocking at the same time.
  4. You feel as though you’ve finally found a “home” or safe place with the other person.
  5. You are able to be your authentic self – warts and all – without the fear of rejection, persecution or judgment with them.
  6. You both embody the yin and yang, in other words, your dark side is balanced by their light side, and their dark side is balanced by your light side.
  7. You feel a sense of expansion with them, as though you are larger than your limited identity.
  8. They make you a better person, and you make them a better person.
  9. When together you are both bonded but free, attached but unattached. In other words, you still maintain your freedom even though you might be in a relationship with them.
  10. You are finely tuned to their energy, and they are finely tuned to yours. This means that you are both very conscious of the present play of energy (whether happy or sad, angry or forgiving, open or withholding) present in the connection. You’re both therefore highly empathic with each other.
  11. You feel as though you have been waiting for this person your entire life.
  12. You both connect deeply and mirror each other’s values and aspirations for life beyond surface similarities.
  13. You twin flame is a mirror of what you fear and simultaneously desire the most for your own inner healing. For example, if you are a highly-strung person, your twin flame will most likely be relaxed and messy. If you like to play the victim, your twin flame will be a strong character who refuses to give you pity or sympathy to perpetuate your complex. If you are creatively repressed, your twin flame will be a flourishing artist. In this way, our twin flames challenge and infuriate us but also teach us important lessons about our fears, core wounds and repressions.
  14. No matter how many times you avoid or leave your twin flame, you’re always magnetically attracted back to them. (Don’t confuse this with abusive relationship complexes.)
  15. One of you is more soulfully mature than the other, and often serves as the teacher, counselor or confidant within the relationship.
  16. You are taught important life lessons such as forgiveness, gratitude, empathy and open-mindedness by them and with them.
  17. Your connection is multi-faceted. In other words, your twin flame is likely your best friend, lover, teacher, nurturer and muse all at once.
  18. Your twin flame doesn’t try to change you. They accept you for who you are and what stage you’re at, and encourage you to do the same for yourself (and vice versa).
  19. You can be truthful with each other about anything.
  20. Together, you both feel driven towards a higher purpose, whether spiritually, socially or ecologically.

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Our twin flames can be lovers, sisters, brothers, friends, cousins or even mothers or fathers. For some people they arise at the most opportune times, and for others they arise at the most complicated times. And still, for some people twin flames are said to not arise in this lifetime, but are nevertheless with us in heart.

Whatever the case, remember that it is entirely possible to be whole and complete unto yourself with enough soul work. Remember, twin flames do not “complete” you because you are already innately “complete” at a soulful level; they instead compliment you deeply and help you to grow.

 

 

 

 

~via LonerWolf.com