NIKKI SAPP: “How To Be Confident While Remaining Humble”

“There’s a thin line between confidence and arrogance… it’s called humility. Confidence smiles, arrogance smirks.”

~Unknown

 

Somewhere along the line what we recognized as confidence may have been misconstrued a little. We started associating traits like aggressive, loud, opinionated and arrogant with being a confident person. You’ve probably seen the type, or maybe you are the type.

They know FOR SURE that what they believe is the unequivocal truth. Therefore they need to tell everyone about it… constantly.

When they aren’t able to convince someone to believe exactly as they believe they may be caught calling others, “asleep” or a “sheep” or any other plethora of derogatory names that I probably can’t mention here. We also may have misconstrued what it means to be humble a little bit too. Being Humble is associated with weak, shy, meek, and someone who cowers to others.

Someone who is so unsure of themselves or their beliefs that they keep them to themselves and are too insecure to tell everyone they meet their opinion on everything. Is there a way to be both? Can a confident person also be a humble person? In order to answer that question we must dissect what it means to be truly confident, and how does “artificial confidence” come about.

“Because one believes in oneself, one doesn’t try to convince others. Because one is content with oneself, doesn’t need others’ approval. Because one accepts oneself the whole world accepts him or her”

~Lao Tzu

 

There are many reasons a person may develop artificial/arrogant confidence. One may be cognitive dissonance, which means they may be holding on to a belief so tightly that when evidence is presented that contradicts this belief they may be completely unwilling to look at the new evidence. They may have become so attached to this belief that it has become a part of their sense of self.

Since they are completely attached to who they think they are it may be a painful experience for them to open their mind up and see things from a different perspective. The actual energy behind holding on to a belief so tightly that you are unwilling to let it go is fear.

The human ego is always afraid to be found out, so to speak, therefore, any threat of someone or something coming along and debunking one of its belief attachments may bring about a negative emotional reaction such as anger. Anytime anger is involved we can be assured that fear is the culprit behind it.

Genuine confidence doesn’t need to get angry because there is no part that fears being wrong or that others aren’t believing them. Another reason a person may develop artificial confidence is because they are insecure.

An insecure person may not truly believe in their theory or themselves so they feel if they can convince others that they are absolutely the right one they can at the same time convince themselves.

This is often done in an aggressive manner, because they are attached to the outcome of people believing them. Again, the fear behind not achieving the outcome they desire is causing them to act in a rude or aggressive manner. Genuine confidence can remain quiet, kind and humble because there is no underlying fear that needs other people to believe exactly what they are saying.

Genuine confidence is humble. It kind of realizes that most people are operating from their own level of understanding and trying to convince them that they are “stupid” or “wrong” usually won’t work anyway. The humble part of them realizes that LIVING and BEING their truth is always more effective than incessant talking or convincing ever will be.

Also, humble confidence isn’t attached to being right. In fact, it happily welcomes new ideas and beliefs because it knows that only when it opens itself up to seeing things from all perspectives is it able to perhaps learn something new.

“The time which people spend in convincing others, even half of this time if they spend on themselves, they can achieve a lot in life.”

~Arvind Katoch

 

In order to maintain humble confidence about our beliefs we must do two things. One is question ourselves….constantly. You may ask yourself, “Do I know absolutely without a doubt that this belief is true?” Meaning, “Did I see it with my own eyes”- normally the answer to this will be no.

So not to say that you won’t have some beliefs about things that involve situations that you weren’t physically there, but it just means that you always maintain a healthy sense of doubt about your beliefs.

This doesn’t mean that you’re unsure of yourself, it means you are wise, because it means you are open to hearing new evidence. Or you can ask yourself, “Is it possible that I am so attached to this belief that it has become a part of who I think I am?” Or even, “Does it matter if the person I am telling about my belief believes me or not? In this present moment does the fact that they are convinced or not convinced change anything in this exact moment in time?”

“Confidence is silent.

Insecurity is loud.”

~Unknown

 

You may find that most of the time, the answer to that is “no.” The other thing a person can do in order to remain humbly confident in their beliefs is to realize that every person they come in contact with can only understand things from their own level of understanding. Which means they are only operating from their own personal programming which may or may not be completely different than yours.

So yes, there may be times when you tell someone something and you enlighten them to something that they hadn’t thought of before but there will also be times where any effort to convince will fall on deaf ears.

When you are unattached to the outcome, you will be fine with either without getting frustrated or angered. Once we realize that our “truth” may not be someone else’s “truth” we can completely relax into interpersonal relationships and take every interaction with a human being as a potential learning experience, which will allow us to always be learning and growing as a person.

 

~via FractalEnlightenment.com

CONSCIOUS REMINDER: “The Body Is A Human Space Suit For Your Soul”

We are souls wearing human space suits.

We are not going to die when our body does not exist anymore, our souls will keep being alive, just like the souls of everyone else. Every one of lives in order to experience such density and reality; every one of us is on some adventure or journey.

Every person has his or her destinies. There are the ones who are going be aware of the reality, while there are the others that are not.

We are all awake; our souls are here for help, together with a lot of other souls. The purpose of every person here is to help in saving humanity from dark times which descended on every one of us. We are also here to offer help to the ones who want to be awake.

We have to remember that we are all one, so hurting others means hurting ourselves, or judging other people means that we judge ourselves too. We can see in other people what is there in our hearts, but not simply in theirs. For example, when we practice understanding and love, we are going to receive the same back.

Our life is tough and challenging; it drains us or even takes away the empathy and humanity within us. Every one of us comes from birth, or every one of us is conditioned to fear of others and of ourselves too, and we are all crushed or lose sight of our real selves. The self-esteem within us will also diminish; the decisions we make will come from some miserable place.

Moreover, we are controlled and manipulated from birth. The true power within us is taken away and hidden. We will not be able to be our real selves ever, and we will keep these selves, and also our feelings hidden, or locked away, being afraid to represent ourselves differently or stand out, or speak out, and even say our feelings or being afraid to listen to our own hearts.

We eat contaminated foods, drink contaminated water, get injected with some poisonous substances or get sprayed with certain chemicals, and we take dangerous medicine. In fact, all of this will keep us under control and enslaved, because those that are ill are much easily controlled than those that are healthy.

However, we may still be alive and find the love deep inside our hearts. Also, darkness is probably very afraid as it uses all those methods in order to subdue us and keep us down or under its control.

The darkness also brainwashes people with movies, TV shows, news programmes, newspapers and magazines, books, or something else, but people will discover the truth despite all.

It is afraid that people are going to discover the truth, so it stands in every corner, cowering and frightened.

It was smart for some time, but its end came as we started shining our lights, shining through it and lighting up the souls, our planet and also our universe for everyone to see.

Truth is simply the truth, and nothing has the ability to change it, nothing may get on its way or hide it. It is going to shine brighter above every life and untruth. And finally, the truth is always going to be the winner. It is how it is.

And finally, the darkness is aware of this, but it still tries to hide everything from us.

It will try to cause us damage and destroy us. We can feel the coming of the day. We can see the shining of the light, and we can see the changing of the energy. This will be our time of shining.

 

~via ConsciousReminder.com

NEZEL PADAYHAG: “The 7 Biggest Differences Between A Human Spirit And A Human Soul”

The spirit and soul are part of the essential elements of the human being. But often times these terms are misunderstood used interchangeably.

Even if these two are both parts of who you are, they’re not one and the same. Knowing how they differ from each other is a great help in knowing more about yourself.

In his book, One Solitary Life: From The Unknown To The Known?, Anthony Fisichella tried to explain that the Spirit is like the electricity that lights up the bulb, which is the soul.

The spirit is The One source that lights up our souls. If this stretches your imagination, let’s just know the different characteristics of each to make an elaborate distinction.

Indeed, the ‘spirit’ of a warrior and a ‘soulful’ song sound much different, right? Here are the greatest differences between these two.

7 Biggest Differences Between A Human Spirit And A Human Soul

 

The Spirit:

– It provides you the Consciousness of Self.

– It is an awareness that is always present in the Now.

– It is a vessel serving as your direct connection to the Source.

– It’s where your intuition connects.

– It’s where your life purpose stems from.

– It is one aspect, a projection of your soul, just like your body.

 

A lack of connection to the Spirit results to:

– Depression

– Disconnection

– Unworthiness

– Lack of purpose

 

The Soul:

– It is unique to each one.

– It contains all the memories of your lifetimes.

– It consists of your ancestral karma, perception, and experiences.

– It carries your potentialities, talents, and abilities.

– It is your blueprint in life.

– It is the book you’re writing across all The Universe, and which imprint you will leave.

– It’s heavily influenced by the ego mind but underneath is your greatest unfolding.

 

 

~via LifeCoachCode.com

TOM MONTALK: “Five Critical Human Weaknesses”

Why does history keep repeating itself? Why can’t mankind get its act together and put an end to physical, financial, and spiritual slavery? Maybe it’s because every attempted solution has failed to address some very fundamental human weaknesses. Until these critical flaws are overcome, change will remain superficial as the old problems keep resurfacing.

The first weakness is that our perception is limited to only the five physical senses.

In being unable to see anything beyond the material universe, we are lured into emulating its ways, into acting like animals or machines even though at the core we are spirit.

It also blinds us from seeing our occult enemies and the nonphysical control structures and energies that they employ. Like an iceberg, most of the Matrix Control System is hidden from view. For that reason, humans are like puppets being pulled by invisible strings.

Sooner or later, mankind must develop clairvoyant powers. Through proper esoteric training, it will become possible to perform miraculous healing, remote viewing, psychic self-defense, perception and removal of etheric parasites, precognition, telekinesis, probability influencing, telepathy, and quick detection of agent saboteurs. Imagine how significantly this would level the playing field. If we could see beyond the flesh, it would be game over for those psychopaths driven by alien and demonic forces.

But for now, mainstream institutions don’t even believe in extrasensory perception, let alone try to develop it. You never hear it mentioned by social or political movements either, which goes to show just how deeply our society has been had by the Control System.

Our second weakness stems from science staying firmly in the realm of physical matter, physical energy, 3D space, and linear time.

This holds back the necessary revolutions in technology that would overcome scarcity and environmental destruction. Our primitive technology also makes Earth physically defenseless against alien forces, giving them the strategic upper hand.

Therefore we must move toward a higher type of science that makes use of energies and principles still unexplored by the orthodox. Examples include scalar physics and demiurgic technology, which employ zero point energy, longitudinal electromagnetic waves, force-free gauge potentials, and etheric energy to accomplish the seemingly impossible. They would allow for free energy, antigravity, invisibility, and time travel. Without such technology, the human race will continue being preoccupied with physical survival, competition over dwindling resources, and dependence on the few who control these resources.

Our third weakness is ego, the mental parasite that keeps us emotionally invested in the Matrix.

It is a foreign installation, grafted upon the soul through genetic imprinting and social conditioning. Ego functions as a mortal personality worn by spirit in order to operate smoothly within the Matrix, though at the risk of getting lost within it. When Spirit, the core of our being, over-identifies with Ego, it takes on its weaknesses and forgets its own purpose. The rider then becomes the horse and can be easily lead by the reigns. So long as the Ego rules our choices, we will always be acting in ways that reinforce the Matrix.

We must overcome the tyranny of the Ego and establish a personal connection with Spirit, with the higher Self. This can be done by recognizing what stems from the Ego, what stems from the higher Self, and through discipline and introspection always following the higher. Through consistent identification with the higher, it grows in influence over the lower. It becomes more firmly anchored within us until igniting like a star into full manifestation. We can augment that process through a cultivation of intuition, meaningful dreams, synchronicity, and deep contemplation. We can increase the clarity of the connection by nurturing noble feelings such as compassion, beauty, understanding, love and empathy. Without a connection to Spirit, we remain wanderers without compasses and lamps without fire, lost in the darkness as so many currently are.

The fourth weakness is ignorance, stupidity, and naiveté, which keep us from making informed decisions.

Deception succeeds only when invited in by lack of awareness. Mankind’s problem is not so much the forces who seek to control it, but the scourge of public ignorance that sustains and regenerates these forces.

Therefore we must increase awareness through a combination of study, observation, experience, contemplation, and most of all revelation. This requires a deep love for truth and learning. We must train our intellects without compromise and become very familiar with logical fallacies and the spiritual warfare strategies used against us. The intellect is not something to throw away in favor of the heart, rather both should be developed in parallel and brought to perfection. The more informed we are, the smarter our decisions. And the smarter our decisions, the better our future.

And the fifth weakness is humanity’s unquestioned faith in consensus reality.

Consensus reality is the way mainstream society perceives the world, the way it works, what every individual must do to survive in it, what is permissible and what is impossible. It is the map drawn by the Matrix to chart our course through life. We are taught to assume that the rules and limitations of the many apply to us without exception.

We must disentangle ourselves from consensus reality. This will only happen when we begin living by the principles of the secret divine reality that exists around and within us. Which jurisdiction you enter depends on where you are positioned on the sliding scale between Ego and the higher divine Self. It depends on where you place your root assumptions, your emotional center point, or your mental dwelling point. By entering the jurisdiction of the higher, we overcome the authority of the lower. What the mainstream deems foolish, risky, or impossible then becomes the norm. Anomalies and miracles become the new reality. The only way to beat a rigged game is to play by a different set of rules.

These unquestioned vulnerabilities all stem from the same fundamental problem, that of spirit being overcome by the darkness of the material universe. The transcendence we seek is not about escape and avoidance, it is about the mastery of the higher over the lower. The real solutions are rooted in the “above” whereas the weaknesses arise from “below.” We cannot defeat the “below” using only the tools and methods of the “below.” Attempting to do so merely replaces one Control System with another. And that is why all human revolutions, social experiments, and utopian attempts have failed, for they have ignored the fundamental problems I have outlined.

These weaknesses reinforce each other. Where three are overcome, the other two eventually produce defeat. All must be overcome together if mankind is to permanently secure its freedom. If the human race as a whole cannot do it, maybe the rest of us can. We shall accomplish it through the mastery of spirit over the mind, and mind over matter.

 

~via HowToExitTheMatrix.com

PAUL A PHILIPS: “The Planetary Awakening and How You Are Part of the Solution”

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In the quest for global domination the powers that be and their associates have had to build up layer upon layer of deception to control the human race, which only goes to show that they cannot enslave us through outright overt aggression alone…

For them, the fear of losing control is far greater than the fear experienced by the collective human race through their controlling:  The controllers know that their armory is a lot thinner and more vulnerable than what they have led us to believe.

In effect the controllers have made a fake reality where every insane perversion and paradox goes against the natural flow of things, allowing them (as they have) to parasite off the human race.

But their theater of illusion with its secrets and lies is getting found out by a growing number of awakened humans.

Indeed, what the controllers fear the most are the consequences of this.

Then, there’s another weakness.  As the controllers push towards complete ownership of Mother Earth and her resources, inhabitants included, there are the opposing factions within.

Each controlling faction group has conflicting agendas while competing against each other.

It’s quite ironic that the only group that hasn’t vied for complete ownership is the collective human race.Some controllers are more interested in owning and controlling Earth’s resources. To some, winning the prize would mean complete ownership and control of the resources alone and doing away with Earth’s inhabitants, if that what it takes.

This madness becomes self-evident when, as an example, considering the transhuman agenda and the threat of a robot (cyborg) world takeover.

As advancements in technology continue to serve the controllers more efficiently, how can we humans set ourselves free?

There is a solution. In your awakening you must realize that you are part of that solution and act on it! This involves applying the 4 universal laws that govern the nature of cause and effect.

To have cause and effect; to take control and rightful ownership of this planet you and a significant number of other humans need to co-create by applying 4 universal laws to birth a new paradigm experience, a world that will make a difference for everyone.

Thus, when the significant number of focused humans applying the laws is reached, acting synergistically, we will be unstoppable as we overwhelm those groups that go against us. In effect, they will be removed from the scenario.

Only those choosing not to be in the predatory roles they have been playing on the human race will stay…

The 4 universal laws

The laws, when focused on, knowingly or unknowingly, ‘operate for them self.’ That is, they operate on levels that cannot be explained by the mind alone.  They transcend the confinements of matter, energy, space and time.

It is vitally important that those focusing on the laws do not deviate, get distracted, or become caught up in the role of victim.

To this end discernment is needed along the way to get some understanding of the multiple layers of deception ran on the human race by the controllers, so as to avoid getting caught up in their traps.

Law #1 – Attention

As I have been saying in previous writing, life shows up as a result of where you are consciously at (thoughts, feelings, emotions, attitude…).  The more attention you give to something the more likely it will manifest in your life.

Law # 2 – Intention

Following on from 1, the greater the intention put into what you chose to give your attention to, the more likely it will manifest.

Thus, it comes as no surprise that ‘like attracts like.’  People and circumstances show up as a mirror reflection of you.

Law #3 – Allowance

Essentially, allowance means simply allowing the first 2 laws to operate… Allowance can at times be quite difficult.

For example, if you’re up against challenging circumstances, making it difficult to stay focused on the first 2 laws.

Law # 4 – Balance

For making the new paradigm experience manifest it is important that harmony and balance is maintained.

That is not to say that thoughts, feelings and emotions… must not run with a degree of polarity.  Sometimes these factors may indeed run high.

That’s okay; some of the related discomforts can serve as a motivation, as long as you don’t become overawed and are still able to hold the focused intent related to the other laws.

Summary and conclusion

Humans need to understand that they’re regarded as ‘fair game’ in a competition over who gets the winning prize; their enslavement through absolute control and ownership.

Some controllers would be happy to own and control the planet’s resources and do away with the collective human race.

However, the momentum is gathering. A growing number of humans are seeing right through the deception.  While discernment and taking responsibility are indeed important, intention is the key.

As a counter to the control and ownership, the application of the 4 universal laws that govern reality is needed to be applied to create a new paradigm experience a world that makes a difference for everyone to take us away from the otherwise doom and gloom scenario.

Just how committed could you be to becoming one of the team of co-creators creating the new paradigm experience by applying the 4 laws?

 

Remember, you are not insignificant. Insignificance is an illusion. You can make a difference in the big picture. In the planetary awakening this is how you are part of the solution.

 
~via humansarefree.com