GUSTAVO CASTANER: “Should You Be With Your Twin-Flame?”

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“Unfortunately the great majority of people who know about twin flames believe that they have to be with their twin flame.  And because of the free will choices and/or the karma buildup this is near impossible.  But let me ask you this.  Would you rather be or try to be with your twin flame and end up in a dramatic, painful and non-functional relationship?  OR Would you rather be with someone who is not your twin flame and end up having the most fulfilling, higher loving and passionate relationship?”

~Gustavo Castañer

 

Today many are celebrating St. Valentines Day and you probably think that I’m going to tell you that being with your twin flame has to be the most romantic, passionate and spiritual thing you can experience…

Not really, let me explain.

If you do some research on twin flames on the internet you will find tons of dramatic and heartbreaking stories of people who have met their twin flames.

Instead of finding their true love many people find that a relationship with their twin flame most likely turns out to be like one of the following scenarios:

1)  They live on the other side of the world and being together is near impossible.

2)  The Runner-Chaser Karmic Loop — one person tries everything to make the relationship happen while the other one (usually the man) runs away.

3)  The Ultimate Karmic Mirror — both partners mirror each other’s karma like a magnifying glass and unbearable pain results from this.

And yes, there are the rare twin flame relationships stories that turn out to be the most higher loving and spiritually conscious, but these are extremely rare.

Why Are Twin-Flame Relationships Like This?

The first thing you need to understand is that when it comes to relationships, even twin flame relationships, each person has free-will.  Even though to one of them the twin flame connection is astronomically evident (pun intended) the other one might be oblivious.

People who are in twin flame relationships need to work on themselves 10 times more than people who are in any other type of relationship.  And usually there is one person that is very focused on clearing their own emotional baggage, transmuting their karma and growing spiritually while the other person is not (once again, usually the man).

Some will try desperately to rescue the other person but this only aggravates the problem.  It might not be easy but their free will must be honored.

The second thing you need to understand is that just because that person is your twin flame doesn’t mean that YOU HAVE TO be with them.  What many people are not aware of is that you are not supposed to be together in a relationship in ALL lifetimes.

Unfortunately the great majority of people who know about twin flames believe that they have to be with their twin flame.  And because of the free will choices and/or the karma buildup this is near impossible.

But let me ask you this.  Would you rather be or try to be with your twin flame and end up in a dramatic, painful and non-functional relationship?

OR

Would you rather be with someone who is not your twin flame and end up having the most fulfilling, higher loving and passionate relationship?

The answer is simple.  However, too many people get attached to the twin flame label.  Don’t get me wrong, I know there is a spiritual connection like no other but if it’s not meant to be then it’s not meant to be.  It takes two people to make it happen.

So if you find yourself in this twin flame predicament and you truly desire to be in a relationship then make yourself a priority and choose SELF-LOVE.

Don’t force the relationship with your twin flame or try to wait for them.  Continue to raise your frequency and focus your intent on attracting a partner that will want to be with you and work towards it as you do.

After all, you will meet your twin flame again. 😉  And at some point, sometimes during their life review, he/she will most likely realize what an incredible opportunity he/she missed to be with you.  Then on the next lifetime they will step up and do what it takes to find you and be with you.

In the meantime, make sure you enjoy this lifetime and cherish the wonderful experience that is being madly in love with someone who is madly in love with you.

Sincerely,

Gustavo Castañer

Founder of Ascended Relationships

 

 

~via AscendedRelationships.com

JADE SMALL: “The Different Kinds of Soulmates and Their Real Purpose”

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Human life’s purpose is to return to unconditional love.  Depending on the type of relationship, as we learn to love unconditionally,  we feel affection, friendship and romance.

This is where the soulmate fits in, and our soul families are here to help us learn that unconditional love.  Romance alone wont fulfill that mission, so our soulmates are here to help us grow and understand.

Karmic Soul Mates

You can have many Karmic soul mates experience in a lifetime, it is very common.  These soulmates come into our lives to teach us valuable lessons.

Karmic soulmates can be family members, close friends, or even co-workers, but humans are not the only karmic relationships we will have, the same karmic characteristics displayed by humans are often found in our pets, as many of us consider them important and special members of our family.

On occasion, Karmic relationships can be romantic in nature, however, they usually do not last long, because they are solely meant for us to learn a lesson from, for personal growth.

Companion Soul Mates

This soul mate relationship can and usually is romantic in nature, but these soulmates are usually not meant to be forever, just like Karmic relationships, these soulmates come into our lives for a specific purpose, and leave once the lesson has been learnt.
Many people do spend their entire lives with their Companion Soulmate, if they haven’t yet met their twin soul, but should they meet their twin soul while in this relationship, it could suffer and this can cause it to end.  If it continues, it won’t be a satisfying relationship at all.  If you feel like you have felt your twin soul while in a Companion relationship, it does not mean you need to run off!

There is a reason why your companion soul mate is till part of your life!

One thing you must keep in mind is that ending an existing relationship solely because one feels one has found one’s twin soul is never a good idea, because over time you will realize that both associations are meant to be and both have an important role in your life.

We put a lot of our energy into the Companion soulmate relationship, which is an interesting aspect.

While the Karmic soulmate tends to go slow and easily, without effort, just like it does in the twin soul type, the companion bond needs work and effort from both partners.

Twin Flames

The highest form of soulmate connection is that of the twin flame.

This is your souls other half, finding this soul is much like finding yourself.

People spend their life searching without realizing that they are looking for someone just like them, and often never find them in this lifetime.

The twin flame is always there, but not always apparent.  Do we close our eyes to them instead of observing and listening to our souls yearning?  Life is set at such a fast pace and we forget to take notice of things that are right in front of us.

Recognizing your soul mates

Twin Flame

  • A feeling of knowing. 
  • A feeling of comfort and a feeling of assurance that no matter where you go or what you do that you will reunite.
  • Similar intuitions.
  • Dreams.
  • A knowing that you share a higher purpose.

Companion Soul mate

  • A teacher.
  • Someone who mirrors you in some or many ways.
  • Someone that may have gone through a similar life story or situations.
  • Someone who reminds you of the lessons you are here to learn, like forgiveness.

Karmic Souls

  • A soul which you have shared another lifetime with.
  • Someone whom you might feel a connection to when you meet. 
  • You have a feeling of knowing this person previously.
  • Intense feelings of love, needing to be together and sometimes fears.

 

 

~via SpiritualUnite.com

GUSTAVO CASTANER: “Soul Mate, Twin Flame… Who Cares?”

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Imagine if you had never heard of labels like ‘soul mate’, ‘twin flame’ or ‘spiritual’, what would you look for in a relationship?  What values, qualities, principles and characteristics would your ideal partner have?”

~Gustavo Castaner

 

Quite often I get emails from people asking me how to manifest or attract their soul mate or twin flame.  Students will have sessions with me so that I can assist them fulfill this intent.  And even though I believe in soul mates and twin flames, the reality is these are still labels.  Labels that will often work against people when it comes to manifesting the best relationship they could ever have.  So the first thing I tell people who desire to manifest their soul mate is to drop this label, because when it comes to the equation of manifesting the relationship that is for their highest good, the label soul mate or twin flame is not really that important.  Think about it, if you could be with a man or woman that loves you, adores you, respects you, supports you, makes you feel safe, inspires passion within you, you are attracted/magnetized to his/her presence, you share many interests and you are happy with… would it really matter if he/she was your soul mate or twin flame?

I resonate with the idea that we all have various soul mates but not all are the romantic relationship type.  But even those soul mates that belong to the romantic relationship category are not always the best relationship for you.  I have witnessed people stay in unhealthy, dramatic and co-dependent relationships only because they believe the other person is their soul mate. Imagine if you had never heard of labels like “soul mate”, “twin flame” or “spiritual”, what would you look for in a relationship?  What values, qualities, principles and characteristics would your ideal partner have?  Would it be easier to determine what person is best for you if you did not have to answer the question “is he/she my soul mate”?

I have seen people fall in love with soul mates who live on the other side of the world and they end up having a distant relationship that most of the time turns out not working at all.  Would you prefer to meet your soul mate who lives on the other side of the world or have a loving partner who is by your side?  Then there are a few people who believe that their soul mate or twin flame currently is stationed in another dimension (often the 5th) and they state this is the reason why they are single.  This could be very well true, yet why would you limit yourself to not have a relationship here and now in the 3D?  Relationships are one of the greatest blessings and gifts we have to love, grow, learn, share and evolve.  I am sure that if your soul mate or twin flame is indeed waiting for you in another dimension he or she wouldn’t mind if you enjoyed having a relationship here and now.

It is my belief that I have met and been in a relationship with two different soul mates whom I later realized were not the best relationships for me in terms of life partnership yet still necessary ones for my own learning, healing and evolutionary process.  Today I’m engaged to my beloved Jenniffer, is she my soul mate or twin flame?  Who cares… she is the woman I love with all my heart and she is my life partner, our commitment to each other is very strong, we are happy together and have absolute certainty that we will stay together.  That is all that really matters.

The term soul mate, twin flame or spiritual are not determining factors when we have an argument or face a life challenge, rather it is the love we have towards each other beyond any labels and the tools and resources we have and can apply to learn, grow, heal and evolve that really make a difference in our relationship.  So if you haven’t met your soul mate or you are not sure if the person you are in a relationship with right now is your soul mate, who cares?!  Focus on attracting and manifesting the relationship that will offer you the greatest opportunities to love, be happy, share life’s blessings, learn, grow, contribute, connect, feel safe, feel unique and evolve.

 

 

~via AscendedRelationships.com

SUNANDA SHARMA: “Twin Flame Telepathy & Third Dimension”

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One may question why would twin flames choose to live on the edge?  Well, it is more like they are divinely tested to that extent that they exude crystal light and pure unconditional love.  To really exude unconditional love, one needs to refine one self and let the diamond within unfold.  Doing so is quite a path!

With that being said, what is the level of telepathy one shares with their twin?  The head connection or telepathic connection is so strong that one twin can read the mind of the other even if they are based in two different continents across the globe.  They can almost hear each other out loud and sometimes even see each other across distance.  This is possible because both the twins are highly evolved human beings with strong psychic senses and sometimes very powerful psychic ability.  If for some reason they do not join together for the incarnation, they will be a walking, talking guide to the other through their journey in this lifetime.

Does the third dimension reality support such unconventional relationships and unions?  It’s very difficult for the people who are still restrained by the third dimensional facade to welcome or comprehend the twin flame reunion.  Twin flame unions are the union of energy, which is the merging of the shiv and shakti as they say in Hind.  Such mergers are not for the faint hearted, but for the non-conformists.  This is the real true merging of souls in divine timing and in accordance with an outstanding divine plan.  That is why the pretenders, conformists and the body lovers may not stand a chance here.  For here, physical appearance does not matter;  the energetic wavelength is what pulls the twins together — one just knows the readings and every beat of the other beyond the comprehension of all the physical senses!  Those who have walked this path would vouch by its feel.

Twin flame reunions have a divine purpose to live by.  Universe will heed their plea once both acknowledge and realize that they are incarnated here for fulfilling a very spiritual mission and agenda.  They are individually very powerful beings, once together the power is manifested.  Similar to two laser sharp rays merging and decrypting the profane from the planet, some metaphysicists have pronounced the twins as ascension masters.  Their reunion all over the world will replicate the source energy and ascend the planet to higher dimensions.  More reunions of these divine mates is now taking place on Earth as our planet is gradually lifting its vibrational frequency to fifth dimensional frequency.  Hail the twins, for they are the fore runners to the next dimension!

 

 

About the author: Sunanda Sharma is a professional tarot card reader, psychic, author and life coach. A published author, she has written two books titled, Inspiration from the Spirit Volume 1 and Inspiration from the Spirit Volume II, which are available on Amazon.com and flipkart.com ~via sunandatarot.com

HANNES HAUSLER: “The 12-Chakra System And The Twinflame Process”

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“Basically it is two people meeting, who do have a very similar or even the same base frequency of soul, which enables their souls to melt into one another.  These encounters are very intense.  You will be facing your greatest mirror, which will reflect all of your aspects, including your shadow and light aspects.  With this person, you can go through heaven and through hell.”

 ~Hannes Häusler

 

 

Are you feeling intense energies in these days?  Stomach cramping, pain, dizziness, tiredness and even fear of death can all be symptoms of you birthing the new chakra template.  For a few years now, there is more and more children being born with new chakras.  Some have 8, others have 13.  The template however is 12 Chakras.  The twelve-chakra system is the new/old template for human beings on earth.  Just as the frequency of mother earth will be raised from 7,83hz to 12-13hz, so will our chakra-system advance from a 7-Chakra-System to a 12-Chakra-System, which provides us with abilities to understand the higher frequencies, which are manifesting on earth right now.  Actually we have had these chakras in ancient times, when our consciousness was more advanced.  Now we are getting it back.

These chakras are not, as generally believed, above our other chakras, but rather they come into our “old” 7-Chakra-System and fill in the gaps, provide us with what we need at the moment. Their base function is adaptogenic, which means that they will adapt to your energetic environment and its needs. It will support our weaknesses as well as fuel our strengths.  Lets say, for instance, your life task lies within communication, you are either an author or a public speaker or something else related to communication, then you will most probably manifest a chakra close to your throat-chakra to support you in your communication processes.  Or lets assume, you have neglected your solar-plexus chakra for a while, meaning that you cannot really find a way to manifest yourself within society or you are scared to reveal your true self. In this case, you will more than likely manifest a chakra that is close to your plexus, which will help you to achieve your divine manifestation.  As stated above, the new template is that of 12 Chakras, but nevertheless the process is individual and solely depends on you and your needs and intentions.  The only thing, which is not predestined, is how far you will go, how many chakras you will activate throughout your lifetime.  The general templating process depends on how much you can integrate and change your understanding about the world.  When new energies are trying to manifest within us, this often entails that our old structures will ripple and tumble down.  So adapting to these energetic processes means that you will slowly let go of all your previous belief systems which were to some extent limiting or preventing you from reaching your highest potential.  This means, you will go back into your childhood and remove all traumas, which you have gone through either physically or mentally. The  key  to this process is allowance and acceptance.

What are some of the symptoms?

As was said above, the process to activating the new chakra-system within yourself necessitates that you are releasing all of the false belief systems and pains, which are keeping you locked in the average robotic mind-boggling of the modern human being.  Thus this process can be very painful and emotionally demanding, for releasing means that it brings all those aspects of yourself to the surface, which you have been trying to suppress up till now.  So as long as you let yourself act out everything which wants to be brought to light within your consciousness, you are on the right track.  Do not hesitate just because you think these emotions and thoughts are childish.  Just take a look at society, everything is based on this one childish, premature belief that we have to be better than others.  And thus this attitude will also prevent you from activating the new chakra-template within yourself.  The core is not developing the new chakra-system, but rather to expand your consciousness beyond what is perceived by the monkey mind.  Activating new chakras within yourself does not mean that you are better than others, who have not activated them yet.  It means that you have become a facilitator for others, it means that it is your duty to pass on to others these energetic imprints, to pass on your understandings which you have gained during this process.

Near-Death-Experiences are natural

Many people will have what we generally call Near Death Experiences while going through this process.  This is logical, for as something new is born, something old must die.  We can die physically, but also mentally, emotionally, psychically and spiritually and what more there is.  These are the basic 5 energy bodies, that make up the human spirit, so the physical, emotional, mental, psychic and spiritual body.

Freeing up the energies in the twinflame-process

Usually people, who are activating and integrating these higher energies, are having very intense encounters with the opposite sex or simply their opposite energetic imprint.  Lets call it twinflames, soul mates and there is a lot of other names and labels given to this phenomenon.  Basically it is two people meeting, who do have a very similar or even the same base frequency of soul, which enables their souls to melt into one another.  These encounters are very intense.  You will be facing your greatest mirror, which will reflect all of your aspects, including your shadow and light aspects.  With this person, you can go through heaven and through hell.  All of a sudden there will be vast changes within all the areas of your life.  This encounter affects all of the energy bodies and it releases all of the false imprints that we have allowed to manifest within ourselves.  The emotional body is the hardest to convince of the fact, that this process is positive for our development, for it holds all of the pains and belief systems, that have so far kept us in a protective energetic layer, preventing us from reaching the deeper, more painful (or not) layers of our personality, basically your highest potential.

Together with your twinflame, you are beginning to set free new energies, one after the other.  Basically it never comes to a halt.  According to our experiences, we have seen but a few people, except the children, who are going through this process of higher chakra activation by themselves.  Usually it is in connection with their twinflame.  Twin flames basically have a common aura, which makes it much easier to create the new energy system for there is much more space to create.  In our readings we take the new chakras as a true twinflame sign or an expansion of one’s consciousness through either entheogenic plants or deep meditative journeys.

Before a new chakra is being born, it usually channels all of the energies of the other chakras into its location in order to create enough energetic impulse to birth itself.  This can be very painful, some people get cramps in the stomach or other places of the body, depending on the location of the new chakra. Itching, piercing and burdensome feelings in one particular area are very usual symptoms.  Also people will start to feel really tired as this process is taking up a lot of energies and you need to rest in order to keep up with the process.

It is a process of moving closer into union with yourself.  The union with your twinflame mirrors the union with yourself.  Energetically you and your twinflame will reestablish the primordial connection to source.

The energies enable you to faster create your own Merkaba, energy body or whatever you want to call it, so to facilitate it for your to travel, see, feel, touch and move through other dimensional spaces, for you to recognize your multidimensional being, to create a space for your soul to grow and express itself.

What does the 12-Chakra-System look like?

Throughout the development within the twin flame partnership, the twins will get, each time they could raise their frequency and understanding, a new chakra added to their energy-system.  All of these 5 (or more) additional chakras serve higher purposes.  Starting on the bottom there is the 8th chakra, which is located between the solar plexus- and the heart chakra.  This chakra serves as an amplifier for divine manifestation and creation.  It helps to channel energies and stimulates the whole energy system of the body.  It is there to guide you in expressing yourself.  It brings the urge of establishing yourself within society up into the heart arena, so that all of your creations radiate from your heart, that you can only follow a path, job, life mission, which is in accordance with your heart chakra.  The 8th chakra is the mediator between the heart and the plexus.

Going one up is the 9th chakra.  Actually the order in which these chakras will be activated is not always the same (and they are not always the same).  While some will start with activating the 12th or the 9th, then others will start with the 8th.  So the 9th chakra is located between the heart-chakra and the throat-chakra. T his chakra helps us to better understand the multidimensional aspect of everything.  It increases our awareness of other dimensions, so symptoms of it being activated again could be hearing strange noises and frequencies, sometimes also seeing things moving about your visual field. With this chakra we can travel back and forth in time and for instance change our perspective on past traumas or other deep childhood memories.  The 9th chakra is a mediator for the heart and the throat chakra.  It brings our communication back into our center, our core, our essence, the heart.  It helps us to understand the wordless communication of the soul.

The next chakra, the 10th chakra can be found on the back of the head, where the neuroscientists have located the visual field.  This chakra is dealing with imagination.  When it opens you start to see a lot of images that lighten up your thoughts.  Everything gets very vivid, while emotions will be experienced in another intensity.  It generally has to do with memories.  The process to open this one, is one of the most painful, because it brings back all of your traumatic or painful experiences, which you have transferred and cemented into belief systems.  But it also brings you back to your primordial memories, the memories of your soul, of your source.  So it always is just a matter of perspective, you are the one through the looking glass, you can either see your experiences as being a burden for your spirit or a challenge and a possibility for you to step up and face yourself, breed your consciousness to the next level.

Going two more up, we will find the 11th and the 12th chakras just above the two brain hemispheres, in its middle resides the crown chakra.  These chakras catalyse and harmonize the feminine and masculine energies of the human body.  Together they will connect with the crown chakra and actually all other chakras and make a balance between the two brain hemispheres.  They channel divine inspiration and can help to energetically understand the unity in duality.  Uniting these two energies is the same process that you have been going through with your twinflame, now its within you.

The whole process of activating and opening these chakras is like a birthing process, where in the end it will help the soul to better express itself to the mind, so that one can find unity and understanding.  It raises our intentions to follow the divine purpose.  Of course the human energy field can have even more than just 12 chakras, but this 12-Chakra-System is the first step for us to evolve as spiritual beings.

This is the general template of the ancient/new 12-Chakra-System.  As was stated above, the process of the activation of your higher chakras is not always the same and some people might have chakras in very strange areas, but those will always serve them individually.

Other Chakras diverging from the Template

We are working as twinflame healers already since a couple of years.  Edina, my twinflame, can read the aura since she is a child, but only since we have met, have we begun to develop and deepen our abilities of seeing, feeling and working with energies.

So we have seen other chakras appearing on different locations, of which one is on the back of the body at the height of the sex-chakra.  This chakra was by far the biggest that we have seen and it is build up like a clock with 12 tinier chakras on each hour-scale.  The function of this chakra is like a motor.  It stirs up the whole energy system, catalysing and boosting all other chakras.  It is an addition to the sex-chakra, which is the seat of our life-force energy, our sexual energy, our kundalini flow.

Also we have seen a new chakra popping up at the back of the neck.  This chakra especially serves communication and as was said in the beginning can help those, who have their job or mission in the arena of writing, speaking and teaching.  This chakra together with the motor chakra builds up a pyramid through the assemblage point, which is another very important energetic feature of our energy system.  The assemblage point guards and controls our perceptions.  So this connection can help us to shift our perception of how we generally communicate and of how to use our sexual energy (motor chakra).  Sexual energy is the main force which constitutes and builds up our dream awareness.  Lucid dreaming solely depends on our sexual capacities, but this is yet another topic, which will be spared for yet another article.

We have also seen people who had an additional root chakra.  Their task is one of designing homes, of creating the trust and root within oneself, the earth and the universe.  These people are usually very grounded and they can bring their instincts to the next level, to connect it with their intuitions and channeled thoughts, which brings us to the next deviant chakra.

This is located just above the third-eye chakra and actually it is two chakras.  The first chakra is emitting turquoise energy, while the upper one has some kind of rainbow-colored energy transmission.  At one point they will start to fuse with the third-eye-chakra, which results in the amplification of the intuitive processes altogether.  People activating this chakra will be much more capable to filter out the truth behind everything.  These chakras help us to see the human aura and other dimensions in general.

Of course there is even more chakras appearing elsewhere.  It depends on you, you are the architect, the builder, you create your own energy system, so be creative!

 

 

by Hannes Häusler,
Guest writer, In5D.com

About the Author: Hannes Häusler is a freelance author. In his writings he is inspired by the ancient wisdom of shamanic tribes and plants. Since he has met his twinflame, they are working together with people doing aura-analysis and energy healing. Right now they are working on a new book, of which this article will be a part of. It is called “Twinflames – The Alchemy of Love”. For further information please visit: http://www.ikerlangtwinflame.com