Love is probably the most misunderstood subject that society likes to talk about daily. Especially the beliefs when it comes to love.
Movies, romance novels, songs, many of these things created a false idea of what love really is. There is a big confusion.
What majority of the world thinks it’s love, it is just one expression of love, a romantic aspect of love. Real love is deeper than this.
However, even for this aspect of love, people have countless false ideas and misconceptions that we would like to clarify.
Here are 3 most used phrases between people, between couples and friends, that need to be removed from the vocabulary and society’s belief system.
3 Phrases About Love You Should Remove From Your Belief System:
“They are my better half.”
The truth is they are not a puzzle piece. You are not a puzzle piece. Nobody is a puzzle piece. We don’t come together as better or worse halves of someone else. Therefore, your partner cannot be your better half. They are a whole by themselves, just like you. If you are not a decent person without them, you will not be a decent person with them either. Strive to be your better self no matter if you have a partner or not.
“They complete me.”
This implies that you are not a whole yourself. It also implies that you lack something, that you have a void someone else needs to fill. The truth is you are whole, there are just some things you believe, or are used to assume, that prevent you from seeing this. When you come into a relationship with your partner you are two wholes that create a loving space for each other to thrive. You don’t complete each other, you support each other’s wholes.
“Keep waiting and your destined One will show up.”
Many people believe that they have One destined person that will show up into their life and they will live happily after they meet. The truth is, even if there is a destined one specially put here for you, just waiting for them is not how you were meant to meet. In fact, life is not about meeting them. It should be an adventure, it should be fun. Meeting your One should come naturally if they exist. And if not, life is still much better by taking action.