LEDA DE ZWAAN: “How Twin Souls Heal Each Other”

areyhautu (8)

Do you consider your partner your twin flame or twin soul?

When you find your twin soul being dramatic, irritating, annoying, addicted, too sensitive, or fearful, take it back as a mirror, and find out if they are reflecting an UNSEEN part of YOU.

Twin souls love each other so much that their energies reflect and mirror everything within. They are showing you something that you are, already have been, or forgotten about yourself that needs to be seen.

Just look at their wants, beliefs, and what they have to say. These are your own needs and beliefs being reflected back at you.

Twin soul love takes you through a spiritual trip that no one else can create for you. Your partner is showing you things from within the deepest love possible and leading you back to your own source, by mirroring everything about you.

The energies between twin souls are taking over (even in words, actions) to show you who you are or what might be in need of transformation.

Some things are deeply hidden or forgotten. Just listen to their words, fears and behavior, and see yourself. If you are honest to yourself, then this is the highest love between souls that anyone can experience.

They will reflect the good and the not-so-good within you. This is a commitment you already made with them before you were born.  You agreed to meet each other and to heal each other by reflection of the soul and ego.

Heal Each Other Instantly

If a twin soul cannot get away because of her fears, then it is possible that the male twin soul cannot leave either.

If a twin soul is obsessed by a addiction, or a theme in her life, it is very much possible the male twin soul has the same exact patterns. If he sees this and is aware and willing to change the addiction or the fear to leave a place, or an obsession, then she automatically will heal as well.

So, if two twin souls are aware of their twin soul partnership, they heal each other first by reflecting the addiction, drama, fear, or pattern. When one of the two lets go of any of these patterns, then other one can automatically heal too. This will generally not happen in any normal relationship or partnership.

If you see your partner struggling with anything (depression, drama, addiction, illnesses, etc…) then see the reflection of that within you and simply say “I want to release this pattern to heal myself and us”. It can heal you both, instantly. It takes self-love to see the patterns, and love for both of you to heal.

The transformation works within seconds. The reflection and knowing is all you need! This is why twin soulmate relationships are the highest form of transformation that can happen in all relationships.

Committing to the relationship (and to stop running away from your issues), is finally committing to yourself as well.

It works both ways.  How can you turn your back on your your twin soul?  It’s the same as not loving yourself. By loving yourself, you will love them and they will love you more, by loving themselves as well.

Running or avoidance is the same as running away from who you are. If they get upset at you for not noticing them, then see how your behavior is to not notice yourself.

You may be angry at yourself for some reason or may be pretending to be someone you’re not. Are they sensitive or hiding their weaknesses?

Twin souls project love and light to one another. In the end, they will get you to accept and meet your true self, not your ego. The more you run away from any perceived issues you have with one another, the more you run away from yourself.

There is no deeper love than the love between yourself and a twin soul that is committed to fully reflect YOU!

 

 

 

 

 

Leda De Zwaan is writer, speaker, journalist and Coach of the New Energy. She specializes in Add/HSP, twinsoul- and soulmate relationships, Karma cleansing, Regression-therapy, sustainability, how to live in a healthy home, heart-activations and healing with new energetic tools. Her website can be found at: www.enlighteningmedia.nl

 

 

Advertisements

SPIRITUAL UNITE: “How to Raise Your Frequency — 5 Tips”

539175_324410917648599_878745196_n (5)

Energy is all around us and connects us together with everyone, every living being, energy is all around the universe. We are all interconnected with energy and frequency. Each of us have a unique frequency, in essence we are part of the same divine radiance which created the infinite cosmos.

We are part of the divine when we are in are touch of this feeling, being love is our true essence, when we are in this moment our energy vibrates at a much higher frequency. With positive thoughts and feelings and by practicing a healthy life style we can support a brighter energy field.

We can also lower our frequency by living in a state of fear, negativity, separation, or fill our bodies with unhealthy substances like fast food, alcohol and drugs, these are low vibrational which blocks our energy and frequency and we tend to become clouded and dark.

Our frequency and energy are magnets which attracts feelings in the world to match our energetic field. As we are the creators of our own energy; how we tend to treat our selves within and out, we are basically responsible for our energy and our experiences. Life doesn’t just happen to us, its our outer experience reflect our inner state. Here are 5 tips on how to raise your frequency.

How to raise your frequency 5 simple tips

raise-your-frequency-quotes-1

1. First tip on how to raise your frequency is to focus on your breath.

This is a great way to raise your frequency, doing this will take us right into our body, calm us within and allow us to shift the energetic presence.

2. Slow down and enjoy the small things in life.

We are always carrying out the never ending tasks. I feel its very important to slow down, it builds patience and allows our energy to sit rather moving fast and letting our energy out.

3. Knowingly feel your feelings.

Some times we can stuff all our feelings down, if they are negative and not very spiritual. In my opinion the spiritual practice is to feel all of our feelings. The quicker you feel and process your feelings, the quicker we can release them. Being human and going through all our feeling is the step way to the divine.

4. Use a mantra

I find mantras are very helpful to keep your mind away from any conditioned beliefs. They help us to return to our true being, also mantras carry a vibrational frequency which spreads throughout the body.

5. Develop Compassion.

Our energy is something we put out into the world. It can either uplift others or drain them. When we begin to notice this connection and how our energy affect others then we can begin to take more responsibility of the energy we give out.

Conclusion

When we engage ourselves in daily practices like mindfulness, meditation, yoga, and healthy eating we can shift our energy. We begin to operate at a much higher vibrational level and frequency, which is the frequency of love, and we become a magnet for positive experiences and relationships.

 

 

 

 

 

~via spiritualunite.com

ROMEO BARON: “Frequency Activation Into The New Earth Reality”

Frequency Activation (2).jpg

 

We are in the final count down into the number of days left before Everything Begins to Change. A while ago, our OverSoul Family placed protective seals on our DNA template until the time came when we would be truly ready to access our highest DNA potential. The reason why protective seals were placed on our DNA was because when the seals are unlocked we all have the potential to be instant manifestors of reality. It was decided that we would be ready to begin unlocking the seals on our DNA in September 2016.

The reason why we needed to wait until this time where there is more Light than darkness, is because the Guardians knew we would manifest horrible things if we were given the freedom of manifestation before this time. Something else must take place in our consciousness before we are given this divine ability. Each individual must be fully tuned into Divine Love, The removal of the Judgement Cycle is the first step.

When the seals are unlocked, it will bring a feeling of freedom because it stops the negative judgement cycle in the thinking brain. When our higher vibrational frequencies are activated within our DNA template, we return to the divine state of instant manifestation.

There will still be many who are not ready in September and those are the ones who will have a very hard time unlocking the Seals from the DNA template. So those who have not prepared for this Event are going through a very toxic state of existence that may send them to the hospital. They will continue to create whatever is still stuck in the Judgement cycle. When a negative thought is stuck in the judgement cycle it is extremely toxic. It will make people sick, depressed and unable to function.

Those of us who understand manifestation technology can rest assured that only those who have moved out of the judgement cycle of their thinking brain and into the mid brain or the neutrality state will be able to manifest through the Higher Mind.

Those of us who are ready for this Event will begin to experience our natural divine existence of instant manifestation from the Higher Mind reality. When this begins, it will be Glorious!

Within Harmony, Divine Love, and Oneness.

~Romeo Baron
AscensionEnergies.com

 

 

 

~via In5D.com

LISA RENEE (Energetic Synthesis): “Rebuilding Foundation”

cosmicrebirth

 

“Like hot metal being forged by the highest red hot flame in order to bend into new shapes, the spiritual forging of a human being produces a host of new characteristic human strengths and skills. The spiritually forged human that adapts to transformation and change, has the potential capacity to evolve into a divine superhuman, which is made possible through conscious participation with the bio-spiritual ascension process.”  

~Lisa Renee

 

This summer has been leading us through another one of those Spiritual Ascension developmental phases of feeling that some area of our life is under construction, and every item is being continually evaluated for its energetic resonance and future direction. Many of us have to stand back with detached observation while the invisible demolition derby shows up with a wrecking ball and a bulldozer, revealing in the moment, what’s staying and what’s going. For others, we have been waiting patiently for the right time and the right place to join into the new energy stream and dive into the waters of change. The rearranging of energetic power that exists in the foundation we have built all things, has an massive impact to shift our life circumstances, such as rearranging our relationships, and reconfiguring any other type of situation that had been previously running an imbalanced energy system. We cannot exist in these imbalances anymore, and everything is getting streamlined or being aligned to serve larger purposes. The collective energies, astrologically, cosmically, planetary or otherwise, are forcing transformation into a new base setting that shifts where we operate from and how we nourish ourselves. For some of us, this is a real testament to our skill in totally letting go and trusting the lit up path that is leading us into the temporarily unknown. We are being pushed hard to change the power imbalances that were running in our life, change their emotional patterns, and that can make us feel emotionally raw when we are pushed to confront everything in our path, but this inner and outer confrontation is necessary.

We have to move out from any physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual stagnation, all things that hold us back. If something or someone is an oppressive influence on our spirit, that situation is being dismantled and fizzing out. Most people have a hard time handling the stress and awkwardness of situations ending, so positive communication or congenial behavior is not generally present. People cannot explain why things have to end, they just feel it inside, and many of us can be at a loss for words.  It is especially difficult when we have formed bonds with other people that we care for and love, and this emotional connection generated stories that included them in our future landscape, and then we have the realization that storyline is not going to happen. This time cycle is similar to a hard-drive reset, we are rebuilding the inner foundation and outer foundation of which our lives are based upon or built around. Any interactive dynamic that existed between people, places and things, that is now rendering obsolete in this current energy level, is getting an overhaul, evaluation, and massive transformation to become something different. Connecting with our inner spirit through daily reflection and spiritual support for navigation through these changes is mandatory for maintaining sanity, as there are certain unpleasant tasks we may have to finish up and accomplish now. Shifting our perspective to look at these tasks as opportunities to learn, strengthen and grow beyond our current belief systems to expand personal consciousness, is what the purpose of this time cycle really means. In many cases, we are rebuilding a new foundation for ourselves now, and when the dust settles from the demolition phase, then we start to see the next step we must take to move through these life altering changes.

The more adaptable, flexible and fearless a person is in the face of massive transformation and change, while riding out into the unknown, is the relative experience of how much stress and pressure that person feels. Our goal is to better accept changes into the unknown as inevitable during the planetary Dark Night of the Soul, and do our best to not fight or resist the changes we are confronted with, but find ways to peacefully adapt.  The change occurring to our personal and collective hologram is similar to a set change or location change on a movie production set. Massive electromagnetic reconstruction is happening in the collective planetary field, and that lends to multidimensional bleed-through of timelines with more surreal, weird and unusual experiences. However, many of us that are seasoned on the Ascension path, are not new to this type of paranormal phenomena, it’s another day in the life of a Starseed, Indigo or Light-worker. However, these powerful forces bring a new sweeping wave of people getting a fast shake down into the awakening fold, and many people are desperate for context or something they can grab ahold to better understand what is happening to them. This intense magnetic change and shift in electromagnetic current on the planetary ley lines is moving very fast and as a result, it requires spontaneous acceptance of massive life altering changes that can happen in the moment. In fact, spontaneous may be an understatement in these times,  we are required to operate in the present time when now moment life changes can and will happen in a split second, of which directions are laid out to you on the spot. What are you doing with these sudden internal messages?  Some of us are still trying to register in our brain what is actually happening, but by the time it registers mentally, the change is already been made, come and gone. Those of us that have developed the ability to listen to guidance, stay in the flow and follow our inner spirit without hesitation, may marvel at the energetic efficiency of the new changes being made.  For those dedicated to the spiritual path, the amount of energy available to us now makes interaction and boundary testing with people, places, or things quick, rapid, efficient and crystal clear! It either is or it isn’t, and we cannot force anything to be something that it is not.

However, many humans that are not aware of the planetary awakening process are not well equipped to counter and neutralize the kind of high pressured stress that these immediate changes and their events, may exert on the individual person. These types of life altering patterns without evolutionary context and tools can be experienced as traumatic and painful, which is very painful for many of us to witness and feel in our brothers and sisters on this earth. How can we best help to support them to find comfort in their awakening process, when they have no idea what is happening to them is the result of planetary Ascension?  That means the spectrum of emotional fear, chaos, despair and trauma are very high in the collective human fields, and we have many confused people wondering if everyone and everything on the earth is going crazy. Many people feel what’s happening in the collective soul body of the earth, and they may identify with the externalized fears, negative emotions, and dark forces as sensations that are stemming from their own internal misery and confusion. When a person is not self-aware or conscious of the world of forces and their energies, they can become conduits of dark forces that are created from the collective human race expression, as they have not developed the higher sensory ability to feel what is inside them and what is externalized by others. The collective human burden of pain is an energetic weight that can feel like its crushing the individual body and mind,  without some development of strong inner energetic foundation and inner clarity. This collective force confusion is also transpiring in many extra dimensions that exist outside of the earth body,  which adds more variations of intensity to the entire melting pot of transformation that is impacting humans, nonhumans and offworlders.

The fiery heat of the melting pot is the alchemical process of synthesizing the opposing forces that operate in our consciousness and in our life, as we move through this end time cycle, we undergo the forging of our inner mettle that is required in the remixing of our internal and external consciousness forces. Like hot metal being forged by the highest red hot flame in order to bend into new shapes, the spiritual forging of a human being produces a host of new characteristic human strengths and skills. The spiritually forged human that adapts to transformation and change, has the potential capacity to evolve into a divine superhuman, which is made possible through conscious participation with the bio-spiritual ascension process.

Through the spiritual ascension process, we are continually exposed to great internal heat and fire, as well as, environmental shifts and many energetic catalysts to affect deep chemical changes to our body, changes so profoundly impactful on our human being, that it has molecular and atomic consequences. Ultimately, the consequence of all of this applied pressure in all of its many forms, as the pressure is applied internally and externally, has a profound impact on shifting individual and collective consciousness. As an example, to understand this archetypal pattern that follows natural laws, the tarot card of Temperance represents the same alchemical mixing and blending of the polarities of forces in order to finally achieve equilibrium, ultimately made as the result of the merging of the opposing forces marrying into one. Those that are feeling the weight and density of these life altering changes,  may feel empowered and lifted to reflect or meditate on the meaning of Temperance in our life. Many times when we have context for life altering changes that we previously did not understand were necessary, the suffering we had in that process is replaced with greater feelings of trust and acceptance.

“Temperance is almost invariably depicted as a person pouring liquid from one receptacle into another. Historically, this was a standard symbol of the virtue temperance, one of the cardinal virtues, representing the dilution of wine with water. In many decks, the person is a winged person, angel, usually female or androgynous, and stands with one foot on water and one foot on land.”

This most certainly is our theme in achieving inner sacred marriage and hierogamic union, the necessary return to balance the inner and outer forces existing inside ourselves and in the world, and that process of rebalancing our expenditures and accumulations of energy, this is especially being rearranged and reconfigured now, in every area of our lives. The Law of Conservation is showing us where we obey the law or where we do not. If there is a relationship or organization that we are involved in that is not flowing in the same energetic stream, that situation is gearing up for completion and the redirection of its energetic resources. This is also serving as an energetic alignment and convergence of congruent timelines, for each being and its circumstantial level of spiritual growth. The areas that we are not balanced or in congruent flow with in our internal energies, are generally viewed from the perspective of feeling pain and suffering. Physical pain, mental pain, and emotional pain, is very present in the imbalanced human body now, and that gives each person the opportunity to address that pain and do the spritiual work necessary to transcend that pain by finding energetic balance. With an evolutionary context for Ascension and some basic emotional clearing tools, this pain will lead us back into finding energetic balance within ourselves, as we apply a proper mental perception with a positive attitude.

With an evolutionary context for Ascension, we can begin to comprehend our larger interconnection to the macrocosm, our interconnection with the Universe, and we can allow ourselves to relax into the stream of Universal flow, leading us into radical change. Once we can see that our existence as a higher self is a point of perception that exists within a larger group consciousness, our individual issues fall away, and we cease to be so overly self absorbed in our perception of negative emotions and personal suffering. Yet, the suffering experience can be spiritually productive, when the person is willing to inquire on the nature of the pain that is being experienced. Where are the areas in your life that you feel pain or suffering, and what message is this pain giving you? Let this inquiry of deeper reflection lead you to explore a new version of yourself, a self that is fully freed of emotional and internal fear, a self that is free to choose to move away from all experiences of suffering. This emotional freedom allows us to converge with others who are sharing the same energetic alignment path towards Ascension, which creates more balanced energy and appropriate value exchanges through the interactions that are made between more energetically congruent parties. There is no bad or good label that is needed, it all comes down to energetic resonance, inner congruency and the proper alignment of mutuality in our exchanges.  We must plant seeds that can be sown from where they can grow and flourish. We do not expect to plant seeds and grow a harvest from the bedrock of stone. Each person must till their own soil, and there is no other person that can do that for you.

 

 

 

 

 

~via EnergeticSynthesis.com – Time Shift Blog – August 30, 2016

STEPHANIE LUCAS: “Embracing the God Within Us”

Art-102-700x325 (2).jpg

After penning the piece “Does Religion Matter?” my inbox was quickly filled with comments and questions that led to many thought-provoking subsequent conversations with respondents. The majority of comments came from those who believe that religion doesn’t really matter as much as the connection one feels with the God-presence, or the God within us all. I respect all ‘paths to God’ and love engaging with readers. In fact, so many of you helped me spiritually grow by sharing your insights, let’s explore this concept a bit deeper.

Exploring the Idea of the God Presence Within

Each of us has our own idea of God, and perhaps the greatest debate concerning the concept of ‘oneness with God within’ stems from a well-known a verse of the Holy Bible from Luke 17:21, which I’ve seen scholars, theologians, and everyday people heatedly discuss. When asked by disciples about the ‘coming’ of the Kingdom of God, Jesus proclaimed “Neither shall they say, lo here or lo there! For behold, the kingdom of God is within you.”

Perhaps Matthew 6:33 offers a bit of insight, where Jesus proclaims that those who seek the kingdom and God’s righteousness will have all of these added unto them. In essence, He seems to imply that life’s ultimate treasure — the ultimate Truths — are within us, and through our spiritual path and acceptance of that inner transcendental possibility, that we truly can gain all we ‘need’ to embrace our divine nature. However, if you explore this a bit deeper, you’ll find that most religious, spiritual, cultural and scholarly traditions have embraced this same precept far before the time of Christ and the Bible.

Art-102B

Ancient References to the God Within

Hindu texts proclaim their belief that the presence of God’s Kingdom is within everyone and everything, and it was a main practice of karma yoga — acts of kindness and generosity that bring one closer to that divine presence. The actualization of this ‘inner treasure’ has been referenced using a number of phrases including:

Judaism – Ein Sof
South Africa – Hunhu/Ubuntu
Aristotle – ‘the Being’
Platonius – ‘the Infinite’
Islam – Fana
Christians – Spiritual Marriage
Buddism – Nirvana
Taoism – ‘the Tao’
Australian Aboriginals ‘the Dreamtime’
St. Bernard of Clairvaux – ‘the Word’
Ralph Waldo Emerson – ‘the Oversoul’

Today, these concepts are often translated into phrases such as God is love… God is peace… God is awareness… God is oneness… God is a unified presence inherently within all sentient beings… God is good… God is Source… However one choses to ‘define’ God and the Kingdom of Heaven, many seem to agree that there is only one Higher power — God. God is often referred to as omnipresent (all Present), omnipotent (all Power), and omniscient (all Wisdom). When we recognize our inner divinity, some believe that we are living in accordance with the true potential of our Higher Selves.

If God is Good and We are God, What is the Source of Evil? Art-102D.jpg

If our essence is of God, then we must also be inherently good, right? The universal perspective that God is good brings forth the question “How can an opposing power like Evil exist?” Granted, there’s a lot of craziness in the world, and many people and institutions seem to represent ‘evil’ interests. Could it be that Evil is sourced by mistaken beliefs in our separation from God… insecurities, fears and indoctrination that can override our intrinsic God-like qualities? These along with mental illness and other psychological issues can often be a source of Evil-doer’s negative, harmful intentions amid the collective.

Free will has been freely given to us, allowing us to decide what we harbor in our mind. When we align our thoughts, feelings, and actions with those of God, a ‘spark’ is ignited and the fruits of the Kingdom are open to be received. Embracing Free Will can allow one to be ‘redeemed’ and see that there is only the Presence of God, and as the Source and Creator of all, that He is the power of Love at work in the universe and is expressed through us – His creations.

His Creations as Co-Creators

Let’s turn to science for a brief moment to acknowledge that it has proven beyond a doubt that all life is interconnected because everything possesses a bit of the same cosmic ‘stardust.’ Hence, it stands to reason there is scientific merit to the ‘All One’ philosophy, and that any distance or separations we see between one another and our experiences are purely human nature… Constructs brought about by our personal perceptions of space and time.

That ‘spark of God’ we feel is also energy, and allows us to become a conduit for the flow of love and peace into the world. Because our minds are connected to the mind of God, we have the power to manifest and be co-creators of our reality through our positive thoughts and beliefs. Whatever energy you put out is like a magnet, drawing in like energies, so if you want love, happiness, prosperity, etc. allow those thoughts to be extended into the world. You do reap what you sow!

What is Heaven – Is it Separate from Hell?

Have you ever said, “Oh my God, I’m in Heaven/Hell?” depending on your circumstances at that moment? My personal belief — which may not be yours — is that Heaven and Hell are merely states of consciousness. As co-creators of our ‘reality’ it stands to reason that one’s state of mind at any particular moment determines which one they are experiencing. Essentially, what we experience on the earthly plane could easily be considered a state of Heaven or Hell. When times feel like Hell, by turning to the God presence within — whether through prayer, meditations, or affirmations — it’s far easier to alter consciousness and transition into a more ‘heavenly’ state of being.

Art-102C (2).jpg

Discover the God Within with Affirmations, Meditation, and Prayer

Prayer is talking to God; Meditation is silently listening for His answers, and it helps us embrace our intuition and discern the “still small voice within” rather than looking for guidance outside of ourselves or from a God who is separate from our essence. Affirmations support the Law of Mind Action. Affirmations help us redirect our thoughts from low-vibrational beliefs in the power of ‘appearances’ like thoughts of lack, limitation, separation, sickness, etc. into a higher state and connection with Source. Prayer, meditation, and affirmations allow us to slip into a state of surrender and openness to God.

As we listen for this guidance and experience the divine connection to spirit, these actions can work together to help us see the truth of our divine connection with all life and the God presence. Here are some of my favorite affirmations for raising my vibrational resonance and oneness with God.

 

 

God’s current of healing love flows through me now, making me whole and free.

I attract my good and radiate good to others.

I am a spiritual being, living in a spiritual universe, governed by spiritual laws.

I am a child of God, beautiful, perfect and loved unconditionally.

I am centered in Spirit and nothing can disturb the calm and peace of my soul.

I am a radiating center of divine love.

The joy of living fills my soul and is reflected in my life.

I am open and receptive to God’s living Spirit of Truth.

I am free, I am unlimited.

 

Embrace your endless potential as a divine co-creator by opening your mind to exploring these topics on your own. Feel free to share your thoughts, but PLEASE do read the article before commenting on the forum, as most of the questions brought forward here were asked by readers like you, so let the conversation begin.

 

 

 

 

©Universal Copyright 2016 is authorized here. Please distribute freely as long as both the author Stephanie Lucas and www.QuantumStones.com are included as the resource and this information is distributed on a non-commercial no charge basis.

 

ALEXA PELLEGRINI: “The Empath’s Dating Survival Guide: 5 Tips for a Healthy Relationship”

maxresdefault

For empaths, dating can be filled with the highest highs and the lowest lows. If you’re an empath, you’re already aware of how being an antennae for others’ feelings isn’t always easy, especially in romantic relationships. The chances of being an empath are high if you experience social anxiety and just seem to ‘know’ what others are thinking or feeling. The extreme sensitivity that comes with being an empath, along with a natural tendency toward self-sacrifice, can make relationships dramatic and heartbreaking. But, by using these dating tips specifically created for empaths, you can find a relationship that provides you with the chance to give endless love and compassion — and receive the same in return.

Don’t rush the relationship: Like many empaths, you probably have an overwhelming desire to merge with your partner, body and soul, and it’s tempting to fantasize about the incredible intimacy you’ll share. But, it’s important to tap into your own empathy and realize that your partner may need more time to open up and get to your level. Talking about a past life you’ve shared together or how you’ve already sensed the future of your relationship could make your partner uncomfortable. After all, the best part of falling in love are the healthy surprises that go with it, and it can be unnerving to hear that you already know things will pan out! Instead of romanticizing the emotional connection you had with your partner on first sight, get to know your partner slowly and let the relationship progress naturally

Keep the communication balanced: By your third or fourth date, you may feel deeply involved with your partner and have the urge to share your life’s story, including some of your most private memories. Although it’s tempting to be an open book to earn your partner’s sympathy and trust, this sets you up for potentially revealing intimate details of your life without receiving the same in return. If your relationship fizzles out unexpectedly, you may feel emotionally violated knowing your ex-lover has seen the depths of your heart when they didn’t deserve to. You also pose the risk of emotionally alienating your partner by getting too heavy too fast. Instead, focus on creating a balanced stream of communication, with equal give and take.

Avoid creating unrealistic expectations: When you feel you’re merging with someone on a soul level, it’s easy to accidentally create unrealistic expectations. Telling your partner after just a few months of dating that you sense you’ll be together always may seem like a harmless statement that expresses the depths of your love. But, by indulging in this thinking, you risk losing touch with reality. Empaths often suffer from a fear of losing those they love. However, making statements like ‘I’ll never leave you’ or ‘I just can’t live without you’ in order to create an indestructible attachment just does more harm than good. Although it’s sweet to be romantic, you don’t want to set yourself up for a co-dependent, anxious relationship.

Acknowledge your lover’s faults: Because you’re so compassionate, it’s easy to overlook your partner’s faults. Forgiving annoying quirks can be helpful, but sweeping more serious issues under the rug will set you up for unhappiness and heartbreak. If you find you’re making sacrifices and constant excuses for your partner’s bad behaviors, it’s time to meditate and ask yourself what you’re really getting from the relationship. Trust yourself, and realize that you deserve the best. And remember: it’s not your responsibility to take care of the weak and wounded at the expense of your own happiness.

Don’t resist change or parting ways: As an empath, it’s easier for you than most to sense when a relationship isn’t working. Because of your heightened sensitivity and desire to be loved, you may fear an impending breakup and do anything you can to keep your relationship alive. It’s challenging to realize that the person you love has become distant or a root cause of your unhappiness, and you may be tempted to do all that you can to recreate the beautiful connection you initially had. You must ask yourself: Do I love the person before me, or do I love the idealized version I’ve created of them? If you see qualities in your partner that may threaten the future stability of your relationship, communicate your feelings but don’t give into the urge to fix or change them. It’s important to recognize when it’s time to keep trying or let go. Use your keen insight to recognize when a relationship has served its purpose so you can move on to discover what fulfills you.

©Universal Copyright 2015 is authorized here. Please distribute freely as long as both the author Alexa Pellegrini and www.QuantumStones.com are included as the resource and this information is distributed on a non-commercial no charge basis.

JEFF STREET (Divine Cosmos): “Discovered Your God-Self?”

God-Self (4).jpg

Have you figured out who and what you truly are?  Have you realized that your self is not limited to your body?  There are multiple levels to your self and ultimately your highest self is Source Consciousness — you are an integral part of the One Self.

Levels of Self

Your true self is not limited to the egoic self that identifies solely with its physical body and imagines that this is all it is.  Your wider self is a multi-level composite being that exists at many non-physical levels at once.  To keep it simple let’s talk about the three most important levels.  The LESSER-SELF (or egoic self), your SOUL, and your HIGHER-SELF (over-soul).

Self and The Nature of the Universe

Before diving deeper into the nature of self, we’ll need to take a side trip to explore the fundamental nature of the universe.  One cannot understand the nature of SELF without understanding its relation to the nature of the universe.  Let’s take a whirlwind tour.

The universe is a field of energy.  And everything seen and unseen are simply patterns of energy — matter, electromagnetic radiation, etc.  And here’s the kicker, this energy field is CONSCIOUS!  In some way, not fully understood yet, consciousness is embedded in the fabric of the universe!  And everything is conscious to some degree; an atom, a rock, a cell, a plant, an animal, a human.  Of course current mainstream science isn’t aware of this, but hey, there’s a lot of stuff they have figured out yet.  They’ve been ignoring or ridiculing the work of a small group of free thinking scientists, around the world, that have been digging deeper into this for the past twenty years or so.  If you are skeptical about this and want to read a detailed account of what leading edge science has uncovered about the energetic field and consciousness check out the book The Field: The Quest for the Secret Force of the Universe.

The universe is intelligent and aware.  It is essentially a mind, a being — one being.  Many terms have be used for this one being; God, supreme being, source consciousness, etc.  The term that I prefer to use is “Universe” with a capital U.  Henceforth this is the term I will use when referring to the one universal being.  And here’s the mind-blowing part, everything is a manifestation of the thoughts of this one being.  There two ways to think about this; (1) Everything is CREATED by its thoughts or, (2) Everything IS its thoughts.  The difference is a fine point that probably isn’t important to this discussion.  Just to be clear, by “everything” I mean ALL THAT IS; energy, matter, stars, planets, etc.  And guess what? That includes US too!

This brings us back to the idea of SELFHOOD.  In a sense, the Universe is ONE SELF.  But here’s where it starts to get very interesting, apparently it decided that it wanted to experience “manyness” instead of “oneness”.  Why it wanted this is hard to say, maybe it was lonely, who knows.  So it created OTHER selves.  And because it is ALL THERE IS, the only way it could do this is by creating SUB-SELVES.  It couldn’t create other selves OUTSIDE of itself because it is ALL THAT IS, hence they must be WITHIN itself.

When it created each sub-self it did so with a slightly different mix of its own qualities.  This way they each would be different and unique.  Presumably it did this because it’s more interesting than making a bunch of exact copies of itself.  A bunch of little clones of oneself might be kind of boring or maybe even annoying.  In addition, each sub-self has its own point of awareness and local memory.  In effect, each sub-self is fully individualized.  Another way of thinking about this is as threads of consciousness — it created many threads of its consciousness each with its own point of awareness and memory.  And guess what?  This is where you and I come in — we are those threads, we are those sub-selves.

And all those points of awareness that are US are actually its points of awareness!  Yes, consciousness can do this.  It can have multiple points of awareness.  The Universe is experiencing through us!  That’s the whole point.  The Universe does not want to WATCH “manyness”, it wants to directly EXPERIENCE “manyness”.  The Universe is having a massively parallel experience through us! In effect, the Universe is SELF-ACTUALIZING through us!

 

You are not IN the universe, you ARE the universe, an intrinsic part of it.  Ultimately you are not a person, but a focal point where the universe is becoming conscious of itself.

—Eckhart Tolle

 

Let’s review…

  • The universe is an energy field and this field is conscious.
  • The universe is one mind, one being.
  • We are all sub-beings of that one being.
  • Oh by the way, as far we can tell, the universe is infinite and eternal.

So IF the universe is an energy being THEN that makes us energy beings too! And IF the universe is eternal THEN that makes us eternal too!

YOU ARE AN ETERNAL ENERGY BEING … did you know that?  Why then do we have physical bodies and DIE you might ask?  Good question, and thanks for asking because this gets to the heart of the matter regarding SELF and LEVELS OF SELF.

Your True Self, Your Higher Self, and Your Soul

Your TRUE SELF is that eternal non-physical being we’ve been talking about.  We’ll call this your HIGHER-SELF, and it is a thread of source consciousness.  From Sources perspective your higher-self if one of it’s many sub-selves.  And guess what your higher-self decided to do?  It decided to create some sub-selves of its own, one of which you call your SOUL.

Your soul is a thread of your higher-self’s consciousness.  Your higher-self created a bunch of souls (including yours) each with a unique mixture of traits. And each one of these souls is connected to a physical body and having a physical life.  Your higher-self does this so it can experience many scenarios and learn and grow spiritually. Your body is a vehicle for your soul, and your soul is a vehicle of experience for your higher-self.  Your higher-self is experiencing everything you are experiencing, and everything that each of it’s other souls (and their bodies) are experiencing.  Your higher-self is the sum of all its sub-selves experiences.  This allows it to spiritually evolve faster.

The universe (and us) decided that it would be interesting and formative to create physical worlds and physical bodies and for us to play in.  One of these physical worlds is EARTH.  Our higher-self creates our soul and and your sould binds to a physical body (incarnates) because it provides a delicious experience and an immense learning/growth opportunity. The whole point of this “game of life” is growth and self-mastery. Hence, it is sometimes referred to as the “school of life”.

You (your soul) CHOOSE to incarnate and participate in the earth game knowing full well the challenges and the rewards.  To explore more deeply why your soul choose to particpate in the earth experience check out What’s the Point of Life? Why are We Here?  The earth game is a highly engaging, demanding, and immersive experience.  A part of the fun of the game is that you lose yourself in it.  You forget who you really are, and why you are here.  But eventually you “wake up” to the fact that you are indeed in a “game” and this realization is very exciting indeed.  After that you begin playing the game “consciously” — you know you are in a game, and you start to figure out what the rules are.  This allows you to start playing the game on a whole new level.  And you begin to realize you have far more control over your experience and outcomes than you ever imagined.  For more information on how the game of life works, and how to become a master player, check out the book Living the Law of One: The Choice.

The YOU that is here on earth right now is multi-dimensional being.  Your soul is an aspect of a higher-self which exists in some other energetic plane of reality and is connected energetically to your physical mind/body.  Through this connection your soul, and the higher-self that created it, is experiencing everything that you are experiencing.  It is often said the we are 3 part beings; mind/body/spirit — but the spirit part of you is actually three parts as well; soul/higher-self/source.

From the perspective of your soul, your physical mind/body is your LESSER-SELF.  From the perspective of your physical mind/body the three levels of your eternal non-physical consciousness and beingness are its HIGHER-SELF.

The three level model that I’ve presented here is actually a simplification, there are many more levels of self than this.  For a deeper exploration of this check out my article The Multidimensional Self

Let’s review…

  • You are eternal non-physical being that’s having a physical experience!
  • Your soul is an aspect of a higher level of consciouness which is an aspect of source consciouness.
  • Your soul is bound energetically to your physical mind/body
  • Your higher-self and source are experiencing everything you are physically experiencing.

Your Lesser Self

Many people only know their self as their identification with their body, their gender, their job, their possessions, and the thoughts and emotions churning away in their egoic mind.  This is your LESSER-SELF.  This self lives in fear of being less than others and having less than others.  This leads to competition, conflict, greed, and selfishness.  The world is full of people who only know their lesser selves, and has been for a very long time.  You can see the kind of world that this creates — your living in it.  It creates a world characterized by competition and conflict.  This is reflected throughout our history.

This is unavoidable because the world we create is a reflection of our inner-selves — our state of consciousness. To change the world for the better, we must first change ourselves. Lasting change in the world is impossible otherwise.

 

Be the change that you wish to see in the world.
—Mahatma Gandhi

 

Normally your higher-self would have some degree of influence over your thoughts and behavior but the earth experience is so intense and deeply immersive that we get lost in it.  Our egoic minds are so attached to the reality of the game, and our thoughts are churning so furiously that we cannot hear our higher-self.  We do not realize that we chose to be in this game, that it is indeed a game — we are completely lost in the game and completely wrapped up in the drama.  Most of us will not wake up to our true self in this round of the game (this lifetime), and when we die, and become our true self again, we may be quite surprised and dismayed at our performance.

Your Highest Self, Your God-Self

As discussed earlier, in our whirlwind tour of the universe, your highest self is universal/source consciousness, God if that’s the term you prefer — The being that is ALL THAT IS and that we are all part of.  The being that is experiencing through all of us.  The being who created us and bestowed free will and creative power on us. Not because it wanted to do us a favor or something, but because IT is US and US is IT.  It is free and creative and so are we because we are it.  You are GOD, get over it!

This brings up a very interesting topic.  A fact that your higher-self is very aware of but your lesser-self has probably has lost sight of.  You command the same creative power as the Universe! YES REALLY! Why you ask? Because your highest-self is the Universe ding-dong! You have all the power and potential of the Universe (God) at your disposal but you just don’t realize it.  Check out Discovered Your Creatorship? Manifesting 101 to dive deeper into this subject.

If you found this article interesting you might like the The Multidimensional Self, it explores the multi-layered and massively parallel structure of your higher consciousness — higher-selves, other/parallel selves, past and future lives, and probable selves!

Enjoy,

Jeff Street

Jeff — “El-Jefe”